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I still don't get how to get cursers for my page...I found a site (thanks to you) and I picked out the curser that I wanted...but I don't know how to get it onto my site. I don't know what box to past the thing into of how to do all that kind of stuff...please helpp!

ok ill try to explain a little better ( sorry ) you got the cursor, then you copy the hyperlink in the box below. then you paste it were you would put your profile on your site. also what kind of site are you trying to put the cursor in, it might not work in some sites.

hope it works this time lol

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I wanted to know (since you have music on your advicenators page), what are the steps to getting music onto your page because it's difficult for me. Thanks!

ok well...

you go to some cursur page thing anything that will support the cursors and stuff.
i use starlightmks.com lol which i got from Brianna!lol thank you Brianna! and you get the hyperlink for whatever you want and put it in the profile part of whatever page you want.

welcome, soph

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Hey, well i feel really stupid doing this, but i need to get this out. You dont have to read this if u dont feel like it. Well, theres this boy. Woah, hes perfect, well for me. & so in 6th grade we went out 2 times. yeah, and that was it.. all through 7th grade we didnt really talk, and in 8th we talked a little.. but he doesnt like me.. and ive liked him since the day i met him.. so, my problem is that i have no idea what to do. like i dont think that there is a way to possibly get him to like me, but i CANT move on? really, he's the kind of guy that can be the SWEETEST guy to you when he likes you, like even as a friend.. and then he can be mean to some people? Sometimes he will joke with you, but you cant really joke to him about him, or he'll get really affended. & when he's online i'll want to IM him SOOO bad, but i just cant? i get nervous, and then i think that if i IM him, he will get annoyed of me? and i never know what to say? when i get nervous i start to make jokes, and then i just look stupid. i just want to tell him everything he means to me, because he's the only guy i've ever actually loved, but he wont ever love me. well, i dont think so. Do you think i should tell him, or what? thanks for listening.


thanks soph, u know who this is, right?

actually i have no clue who this is lol. tell me though lol.

ok well try to act cool. just think that if your nervous you'll sound stupid and you don't want that. don't tell him how you feel just yet. be more friends with him. so when you get more comfortable with him. hope i helped.

-sophie

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okay..i'm 14 and i started havin sex at 13...i'm up to 9 people now and its horrible! i can't stop and i dont know what to do! i've tried so hard...i just wanna find a nice guy to start a relationship with but i just cant find anybody! please help me i don't know what to do

P.S. u dont know me!
i dont know u!

try finding a guy who you don't really know. or who doesn't know you. just take it slow. you can't have sex all the time or ur relationship will like dissolve insainly.

-hope i helped
sophie

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hey sophie!!!!!! i miss you like crazy, you're in armenia right now! me and taussig were both like "we miss sophieeee!" anyways your advice thing is sooo adorable! you changed it! lol anyways miss ya and see ya later, obviously i don't need any advice i just wanted to say that i miss ya and luv the makeover thing. lol
xoxox, marth

i feel so loved. lol.

thank you.


-i missed ya also! bye bye

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my family is supposed to go on a trip to California in the Summer but I am still scared og going on airplanes. What should I do? Its for my uncle's 50th b-day so I don't want to ruin it.

Ok, well planes are safe now that we have higher like security and stuff. I don't like to go on planes that much either, but im going to like Germany this summer, so i kinda have to go on one. It's just for a couple hours then you'll have some fun in the sun lol. Just think about having fun in Cali and bring like an ipod, video game, c.d player or something and watch the movies to get your mind off of flying. And happy 50th birthday to your uncle! lol bye have fun in Cali.

-sophie

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ok my "freinds" well i saw them @ a game right and they were playing but like i tried 2 wave 2 them becase i was playing (well i was on the bench then) but any way i waved to them and then one of the saw me and all she did is look at me and then she was talking 2 who she was with and they were both looking at me so then they just blew me off, wast should i do should i be mad or wat, they both saw me.?? but i really care about oneo f them (the one that didnt just stare and then tell the othor one)?

Just ask them. Then decide if you should be mad.

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i was babysitting these kids and the boi said he was going to kill me. maybe he was kidding cuz hes only 6 but maybe its forreal!! he mumbled it under his breath like in a scary movie. should i freak and tell someone or not? help SOPH18!!! I BEG OF THEE!

Okay, well I don't think a 6 year old can kill someone, it's kinda hard to kill someone if you think about it,..Just be nice to the kid. Give him candy and play with him. but don't favor him over the other kids. Was he mad at you? That's a little scary, but if does something to you, then quit or tell his parents. Don't tell anyone just yet. Sometimes people can say things they don't mean when they are mad, or moody cuz of something that happened. bye

-sophie

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sophie, you know who this is and please don't tell sophie I WAY 94 F-ING POUNDS THATS NOT GOOD my dad is like "do you have an eating dissorder or something?" and i am like "no ofcorse not...." but i am not eating the same ITS REALLY HARD TO NOT EAT FATTNING FOODS sophie and its not working i've BARELY lost weight but for the pool party thing i am just going to be like sitting in a chain in like jeans and a shirt and everyones gonna be like "come in the pool" and i'll have to say i have an ear infection because i promised someone that I was gonna wair a bikini with them BUT THIS SUCKS!!! thats it. I QUIT EATING FOOD (or i'll try to at least) WHAT THE HELL IS MY BOY FRIEND GONNA SAY IF HE SEES ME LIKE THIS HE'LL DUMP ME!!!

Ok, well don't quit eating,because that's not good. ok, 94 is normal. And that was mean for your dad to say that. I bet everyone feels the same way about the pool party like you. One of my friends advice colum has a lot of questions like those.your not fat. Instead of not eating, have an aple, or some other fruit,but not just aples. because that's not good. Maybe ur getting taller,because u used to be shorter than me. But now your like my height. So your weight is probably that your getting taller. and don't drink juice a lot. . Water is good for you, and its refreshing and stuff. your boyfriend is not going to dump you. You look the same, and if he liked you before, he'll still like you,..well hope i helped. bye

-sophie

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how do you get a girl freind?

Well first you have to find out if they like you, then you ask em if they will be ur gf ( if they like you ) and talk to them a lot also. Well i hope i helped bye

-sophie

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I really, really like this guy Andrew. He liked my other friend, Xochitl, but he might still like her...I tried to hook them up, but she rejected him. I gave him all sort of ideas. But he came up with a sweet idea of making her a necklace. Andrew and I became good friends, and I started to have feelings for him. I want to ask him out. There is only 4 days left of school though! I was thinking of writing something special in his yearbook. Like, kind of asking him out. What should I write? Or should I tell him face-to-face that I like him? I can't make up my mind!
13/f

aww i think thats sweet to write in his yearbook something like " hey andrew have a fun summer! I like you, maybe we can go out?? well call me" lol, something like that. well hope i helped ya

-♥ Sophie

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Will, there is a girl at my school who is a complete BITCH! Exsucuse my French ... but she seriously bothers me! Okay so you know Jessica, she just does whatever Jessica does and acts as if Jessica is completely innocent! And she always acuses me of stuff. And she CONSTANTLY calls people and is just soo annoying and mean! I don't know what to do about her, but I have to do something! If I tell her to stop bugging me, or at least tell her the truth she'll tell Jessica and get her mad at me and than Jessica will accuse me of all this stuff! Sorry you had to listen to me complain, but she SERIOUSLY bothers me!

Its seriously ok. Yea well you can tell her and have other people agree with you is the best. When other people think that then your fine. It like pisses me off when people think they are soo cool and you tell them one thing that is true and they are like no! so yea idk! you can tell her or not. And don't listen to other people if its not true. Hope i hoped ya! bye


-♥sophie

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well i like this boy likes me & hes real nice & all i kinda like him but wat shud i tell him he really likes me, but i dont really like him?? hav u ever had 2 deal with this???

yea sorta. Well, tell him " your really nice and all but i don't really like you, but we can be friends" lol those are one of those lines from like movies. But it works. U might grow into him, i mean like you might like him when you get older or later or something. You can't really be forced to like the person. But you never know. I hope i helped ya!

-♥sophie

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well, schools almost over and over the summer i wanna like go to a different country with just a couple of my friends, but my mom still thinks im a baby and wont let me go without her. what should i tell her to let me go?

Well i don't really know. But maybe like show her how responsible. And if you have relatives where you want to go then maybe you can ask to stay with them. But if you go have fun!BYe!

♥Sophie

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hey sofie!
my mum is having a brunch/party with some of her friends. im going to wear a green polo dress but what sould i do with my hair.

p.s. shaving it of is not a option
love,
elle-bell

I think it would b reli nice to maybe wear it either in a messy bun or down. The putting the hair up is more causual so if its casual put it in a pony tail.But if it is fancy you should wear messy bun or hair down like i said. But yea. Have fun!!!

♥Sophie

lol darn! i was going to say SHAVE IT OFF lol jk

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Me and my friend have been friends since Kindergarden. (currently in 8th grade) And in 7th grade this girl moved here and we've been friends ever since. But i try very hard to include both of them in all that i do.. and not ignore them. But then when she was in 5th grade here and this other girl became friends and ever since and it seems like i'm always being ignored by her. I understand that she has to have other friends and stuff but i feel like i should be indluded in some of the stuff she does. like occasionally go to her house. and when i invite her to my house.. it always seems like something 'comes up' and she never gets to come.. either that or she already has plans with the other girl. I don't wanna break the friendship.. but i just don't know what to do.. Any suggestions?

Ask her what is going on. The same thing happened with me and my friend. Like I found out ( not from her ) that she was jelouse. It's good that you know that she has other friends also. Just ask her.


-♥Sophie

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Well there is a guy at another school that I sort of like. Sometimes when we are having a conversation it gets very awkward and we have nothing to talk about! Is there any good topics I can bring up without sounds nosy or weird? Thank you!

And also if you know who this ... lol ... which you do... don't put you know!

Ok since you sorta like him you don't want to feel stupid,..i understand and say something like weird. Without souding nosy or weird,...

**Movies** but,..thats old school i dunno bout that

** say something that was funny that happened** and if he says ok hes a jerk lol

** ask him like if he wants to meet ova da summer** ;)

** or wait till he says something** if he likes you back he will prob. talk to you alot.

-♥ Sophie

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well you see i like this girl, but i think she likes me, iam not sure though. what should i do?

Ask her if she likes you. Try to make her like you. You might want to be closer to her first though. Like talk to her. And mayb sit next to her. So she can be comfortbale with saying if she likes you or not. Some girls are diff. though. It depends. If she is nice she'll like that,but if shes mean,...well ur scrwed lol jk. but yea.

♥Sophie

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