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I like him but I'm Taken :/
Ok, Recently i told this boy lets call him kyle i like him and i really have major feelings for him and he told me he has serious feelings for me we keep writing to eachother and flirting but i have a boyfriend... lets call him justin and kyle and justin sit at the same table at lunch and usually justin walks me to gym and he forgot about me and i forgot about him and is that a sign to break up with justin and go out with kyle? please help me i know this is confusing but i really need help! i'll rate high!
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well if he forgot about you you should dump him i wouldnt go out with some1 that forgot about me
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i personally think it is a sign to break up, if you both forgot about each othe, then of course break up, it would be the best for u, justin, and kyle.
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if your boyfriend has forgotten about you, and you don't mind, go ahead and break up with him. follow your heart, if your heart leads to kyle, go for it, and have a good time
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I think just because Justin "forgot" to walk you to gym doesnt mean he doesnt like you. dont go and dump him just to go out with someone else.
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well, my opinion is to actually break it off with 'justin'. i mean, make it offical. wouldnt you feel more comfortable knowing that you havent made a mistake??? it sounds like you really like 'kyle', so dont torture yourself like this!!! GET RID OF THE OTHER DUDE. lol. if he has forgotten about you also, then thats a TOTAL sign to finalize the break up. its more reassuring.
hope this helped, =D good luck!!!
dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT
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you should talk to justin and ask if you still want to be together.. if u are not totally happy with him then he may not be happy being witth you and you will have a chance with kyle! and you should make the first move with kyle if e doesnt ask you out within a week of you breaking up with justin
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Well, I don't think that Justin forgetting about you and you forgetting about him is a sign that you two should break up. You should talk to Justin and tell him how you feel and that you have feelings for Kyle. He should know what's up, since he will eventually find out from someone else. If you want to break up with Justin, talk to Kyle and make sure that he will go out with you, once you and Justin break up so you didn't break up with for no reason. If you like Kyle and if he likes you, then yes, you should go out with him but just make sure you talk to Justin.
-Karen
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go out with kyle....if your having second thoughts about ur boyfriend just dump him...and besides its not fair to either of them to be flirting with both...and obviously you dont know if your bf is still into you or anything...or u wouldnt be asking this question. i think you should dump him and go out with kyle...and if things dont workout with you and kyle...if you and justin were meant to be..youll get back togther or something
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Just because you forgot about your boyfriend forgot to walk you to gym once doesn't mean that you should break up with him. However the fact that you really like kyle and he really likes you is a sign. Before you do break up with your boyfriend I would actually speak to kyle about it and make sure that if you were to break up with justin, kyle would then ask you out. It would be really crap on you if you were to dump justin and then for kyle to turn round and say he isn't planning to ask you out because justin is his friend and he doesn't want to hurt him. Then you will have no boyfriend and two guys who probably won't be very happy with you.
I do think you've got a really good chance though and you have to dump justin anyway if you aren't that happy in your relationship. Good luck
Claire xx
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I think I would just be honest with this Justin, your bf. He deserves to know what's going on and will probably be hurt if he finds out about how you like his friend from someone else. Good luck
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well if you have major feelings for kyle...then its not fair to justin, you or even kyle...because your doing justin wrong, your confusing yourself and your only giving kyle half of your feelings.
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stop leading justin on if you have a thing for kyle. Basically yea break up with him.
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Absolutely I think you should break up with your bf. You and Kyle both have strong feelings for one another. You and your current bf are drifting apart. Dont feel bad about breaking up with your bf to go out with kyle. We're young..we are supposed to date lots of people in our "golden years" lol It sounds like you and Kyle are going to have a great relationship!
-melissa-
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You have to decide who you like more Justin or Kyle, i mean it wasent a very good idea to tell kyle your feeling when u where going out with justin, but now tht you have you have to decide who you care about more. You schould also talk to Kyle and see what he thinks, he might want to get a break up becasuse he saw how you where with Kyle. Im kindof confused if you like Kyle or not.
I hope this helped a little
Kate
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Well,it probably wasn't the best idea to tell Kyle your feelings about him since you were still going out with Justin. Do you still like Justin? If your confused whether you still like him or not think about this: Do you love to be around him? Does your heart pound when you're near him or you see him? If you were with him while you were crying could he put a smile on your face? If yes is the answer to these questions then you probably still like him. If no is the answer then you probably don't. Now, which guy would you rather be with... Justin or Kyle? If Kyle is the answer then dump Justin... it's not fair to be going out with him if you have feelings for Kyle. If Justin is the answer but you still like Kyle you have two choices - stay with Justin or go single. I personally think that the best decision would be for you to go single because its not fair to Justin or Kyle if lets say you stay with Justin but you still like Kyle becaue the guy you go out with should be the only guy in your heart.
Hope I could help!
-Mallory
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