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Hey,my name is Angela and I'm 13 yrs. old. I live in New York and have 2 older sisters. I LOVE basketball and am on the JV team. My favorite team is the San Antonio Spurs and my favorite player is Tony Parker! My favorite thing to do is to watch, read , and ofcourse play basketball anytime. Basically basketball is my life.

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Well at ym B-ball practices i really play my hardest and act fun. But when I go to my games i freeze up and play like i dont know what im doing. The play offs are coming up and I dont wanna mess up my team. Im not stage fright or nervous. I just dont play right. Please help or give advice

I have the same problem sometimes. I'm good and everyone says I am but during some games its like its my first! Get into a your zone mood where you dont think about the audience and you dont pray for the shot to go in. Act like your at practice. Basketball is a very FUN sport but its what you make of it. Dont worry so much about who's watching you during the playoffs just play the game your best! good luck at the game! Hope you win!:)

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Ok, Recently i told this boy lets call him kyle i like him and i really have major feelings for him and he told me he has serious feelings for me we keep writing to eachother and flirting but i have a boyfriend... lets call him justin and kyle and justin sit at the same table at lunch and usually justin walks me to gym and he forgot about me and i forgot about him and is that a sign to break up with justin and go out with kyle? please help me i know this is confusing but i really need help! i'll rate high!

I think just because Justin "forgot" to walk you to gym doesnt mean he doesnt like you. dont go and dump him just to go out with someone else.

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hey i really like this guy, and i think he might like me, cuz he ALWAYS flirts with me, but im not sure (i am shy) how should i find out

Im really shy too and the only way you can really find out is for a friend to ask him or one of his other close friends. Or just ask him who he likes...thats not that hard!

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When you eat lolly pops dye gets all over your lips. Does anyone know how to get rid of this? I have blue all over my lips and it's kinda embarrassing. So, does anyone know how to fix this? I'll rate.

just rub your mouth with water or brush your teeth.

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i'm 13 and haven't had a period yet. i know that's normal, but most of my friends have had theirs, and htey give me a hard time about it. first they'll say i'm not a woman, then they'll say i'm lucky! it gets annoying. what do i do?

-punctationless

It is very normal. In a way you are lucky though. Every girl cant wait to get it because they'll be a lady, but when they get it, they wish they never had. It will come eventually just give it time and have fun now without it.

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I have a BF(boy friend)and he said he was goin' 2 call me but he never did is that any sign of he wants 2 break up with me?or doesn't want to call me no more? i rate very high.

~~GRAPE~~

Just cuz he didnt call doesnt mean he doesnt like you or anything and wants to end it. something proley came up...just ask him about it.

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Well im 15 and i need to make some money im saving up for a drum set i have been saving for awhile and i dont have that musch. No onw will hire a 15 year old. Does anyone have any ideas of how i can make some money??

get a job at burger king!! lol my sister got a job there when she was forteen. Or just try shoveling snow or mowing lawns!

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As everyone knows Valentines days coming, so am I suppose to get my boyfriend anything even though I have been with him since the 7th or 8th? and if i am suppsoe to what should i get him? Thank you!

I think you should get ur bf CANDY ofcourse and maybe like a really nice card that explains the way you feel. A bear or something stuft is cute.

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I am a 13 male and i am really attracted to a girl but i dont know how to talk to her. I'm a little afarid of girls can u help.

girls are shy too...so dont be scared whats the worst she can say? or just have a friend ask her who she likes or something...girls do it all the time. If you get your feelings hurt youll get over it ...ur 13. hoped i helped

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When I do crunches or ab workouts, my abs shake really bad.

When I just bend up for a crunch, it shakes horribly and I don't know why. Maybe my muscles are weak? Thanks in advance!

Its normal..dont worry. i think its because when you sit up for the crunch your body is now supporting your weight by only that muscle in your stomach..so it starts shaking because its holding up so much pressure and trying to keep your body up.

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Over the weekend me and my friend got in a fight with a permanet marker, she accidently got some on my light pair of jeans and it won't come out. I washed them and put SHOUT stain remover on them twice but it still won't come out. Do any of you have any suggestions? My jeans are really light, so I dont wanna to ruin there color or anything, and if I bleach them, then I'll lose the color in that spot. Please help.

maybe put a patch over the stain?

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Hey, does anyone know what stores have Hello Kitty stuff?

Ask the internet?

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ok this guy named john likes me and i like him and we both know it and what's the problem y dont we just go out? well he did ask me out and the problem is because my friend alexis went out with him and to all girls u know the "rules" dont go out with a guy your friend has gone out with. she knows that he likes me but nobody knows that i like him except for john because if word gets out she wont really be my friend. now this isn't about alexis and i dont want advice saying to dump alexis b/c she is a being selfish. john and me decided that we could just be friends or go out secretly. and i need to know which one to do. like go out with him secretly(without anyone finding out) or just be friends.

I think you should just wait. You should go out with him secretly but then you'd be doing that behind your friends back. At least try to convince Alexis that you really like John (thats if you do!) If he likes you and you know for sure that you like him...then go for it even if Alexis doesn't except.

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i have this friend and we always hang out ....and mess around .........when i was scared at the movies ..becasue we wre watching a scayie movie ..he held my hand ....and at school he linked my arm with his ..and as he let go ...he grabed my hand ..i mean i like him ...i have alot of fun when i'm with him ...and some times i'll grab him by the hand ......when i say come on ....and he'll hold my hand .but for a like a couple of seconds....wat should i do .i like him..but i don't if he likes me or not .or is he just mesing with me

Just ask him if he does or not. It already sounds like you guys would make the perfect match. So just go for it...only if your sure you really like him.

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