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complex relationship
ok this guy named john likes me and i like him and we both know it and what's the problem y dont we just go out? well he did ask me out and the problem is because my friend alexis went out with him and to all girls u know the "rules" dont go out with a guy your friend has gone out with. she knows that he likes me but nobody knows that i like him except for john because if word gets out she wont really be my friend. now this isn't about alexis and i dont want advice saying to dump alexis b/c she is a being selfish. john and me decided that we could just be friends or go out secretly. and i need to know which one to do. like go out with him secretly(without anyone finding out) or just be friends.
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well going out secretly wont last long but yall like each other alot i think yall shouldnt care what people think its over between them two so it shouldnt matter but i understand where your coming from when you dont wanna lose her as your friend but find out iof she still has feelings for him or anything then make your decision...Rate me please *~DEZ*~
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Talk it over with Alexis. You never know, she might be fine with it, and she definately deserves to know. If she doesn't accept it, give her time, and if she still doesn't, then you have to make a choice between her and John. Just remember that relationships tend to end and friendships don't. If you care about staying her friend, you'll tell her. Please, please don't keep her in the dark, and don't compromise your love life when you don't even know how Alexis will feel about it! Tell her - you don't know how she'll feel until you try.
I really hope everything turns out OK :) You're an absolute angel to think of not going out with John for the sake of your friend :D Alexis is lucky to have a friend like you!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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I think you should just wait. You should go out with him secretly but then you'd be doing that behind your friends back. At least try to convince Alexis that you really like John (thats if you do!) If he likes you and you know for sure that you like him...then go for it even if Alexis doesn't except.
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Alright the last thing you can possibly do is go out with this boy secretly. If anyone ever found out your friends would hate you !! It is impossible to keep a relashionship on the down low because when there are dances and things wat r u going 2 do? Either tell your friend how you feel(iym sure she will understand), or just stay friends with this boy the worst thing you can do is to secretly go out with him.
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