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no love back
I'm 17 yrs old and me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months and i love her alot. i've been pouring out my feelings to her, tellin her how much i love her n everything, but i dont feel like she feels the same way.. what do i do? i dont wanna dump her cuz i love her alot..
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Ask her how she feels. Don't let her beat around the bush. You don't want to be lead on, and you also don't want her to feel like she can't let you go because she doesn't want to hurt you. I know you love her, but do you really want to be in a one-way relationship? If she does love you as much as you love her, then ask her to express it, because she is causing you to have doubts.
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My first off Idea is to talk to her about it and let her know that you feel your not getting anything back. You'd love for just a simple aww thanks i love you so much you mean alot to me! But i guess she may be shy so you have to except that and its very hard for some people to open up and share feelings. Usually it is for guys so good job on that!! and just stright up ask her if she feels the same way.-trix
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stay with her. when the time comes it will come. and if it doesnt come soon then that means she loves you too. she may just be shy. im really shy as well. i absolutely adore one guy and im afraid to show him my true feelings. she might just feel that way and doesnt know how to tell you. hope i helped
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dont dump her ask her directly wat she feels about you and if she doesnt love you then consider moving on but also consider she may be having mixed feelings.and in time she will sort out her feelings
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The only way to find the answer to that question is to sit down with her and ask her. If you talk to her and tell her how you feel than it should at least answer your question or give you some closure to those feelings. and who knows maybe she does love you back but is just scared because it could be a first love for her. Just let her know you love her and that no matter what you always will. GOOD LUCK!!
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Unfortunately, you can't make someone love you and you can't love her enough for the both of you. If she doesn't reciprocate your feelings, the only good solution is to try to move on.
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If she's not saying it, then there's a reason. Cut your losses and move on.
J
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Here's a revolutionary idea that took me 20 plus years to realize: it can actually be good if one person loves the other person more. I am not saying that you deserve a zero return on your efforts, but I am constantly astounded by how much my fiancee loves me more every day. I do love him, don't get me wrong, but I feel like I could never match him.
So it's time for a heart to heart on how she really feels about you. If she just doesn't feel "it" as much, not too bad really. If she doesn't feel it at all, then you might then decide on making your separate ways as difficult as it is. If she loves you, she'll be back, but don't stop your life.
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just talk to her and get her point of view on things.
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sam
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First of all i think it's good that you tell her how you feel and your honest with her. Ask her how she's feeling and what she feels towards you. You never know maybe she loves you too.
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