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okay i cant handle this anymore. how do you deal with parents that are ALWAYS fighting? i mean they wont separate they talked about it but they wont and it's beginning to tick me off because they will be good one day and then the next you know it they are fighting and it sickens me! i cant handle it anymore i feel like punching them out. please help. THANKS!
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its annoying when parents fight. try talking to them. if they don't listen, ignore them, see how they like it. you should show them that you are mad and upset.
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lol why does everyone sey tht want to Punch? lol ok well ne ways that must be hard , ive never ha that so im not comming from a first hand expereince, but have u said anything to them? becuase they both love you and will probely come together when it comes to talking with you.
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Don't get involved. It's their decision whether they decide to get a divorce. When they fight do something or go somewhere that gives you comfort, like a friends house. Leave the fighting to them. Well, hope things work out for you!!
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oy, this happend to me. and then my parents finally got a divorce. they hate eachothers guts and i hate to see them fight, but in teh back of my heart there still some idea they will get back together. not. theyve been divorced now for 8 years.....so..... the best thing to do is get out of the house. if their fighting is affecting the way they treat you, find or advise them to a counselor. with alot of love and dedication, things could work out for the better.
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have you even talked to them about it? if you haven't, do so, because your parents should see that it's really bothering you and hurting you. they probably don't realize it's effecting you.
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Wow. Im sorri! I hope everything works out! I can't really help you out to much with that because I havent been in this place for awhile. Whenever my parents fight i just go out to them and say hey not in front of me.. ok? then one night at dinner i brought it up to them that i was sick and tired of this happaning and if they fight so much it gives me the big impression that they want to break up! So they need to stop! I just pretty much said what was on my mind and i got backed up all the way with the sibs. So try that. Happy Holidays!! **Please Rate** Trix
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listen my parents are divorced and it sucks even though they fought and sometimes it disturbed me greatly i tried to forget it then when they were divorced it was horrible i couldnt think straight i was in pain and misery and sometimes you must choose between them and its hard!!my advice is enjoy your parents being together and there fo you while there still there!!!merry christmas(p.s) if you really want them seperated just wait 4 your stepmother or stepfather
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omg...that sounds exactly like my family...i try hiding in my room tell one of them leaves...really you cant do anything about it exept try and talk to your mom or dad...if that doesnt help then suggest going to counseling...hope this helped
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Ok i know this sounds hard but you need to talk to them and tell them how much their fighting effects you. hope i helped
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Deffinitly talk to your parents about this and tell them how you feel. If that doesnt work then deffinitly join an after school activity.
~Brina~
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I think you should just let them deal with it or if they don't stop and things get serious then contact a relative or the police!!! MAybe even a physical therypist!!!
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Ok...I know how you feel about this because my parents were divorced...and then they got back together again...and now they are separated again!! It is really hard to deal with stuff like this...but u better just leave your parents to deal with it!! If you get in the middle of everything, you and your parents could get into a fight...and that would only make things worse!! Eventually, your parents will get sick of the fighting as much as you are...and then they will take some action!! If they do divorce than just know that everything will be better and you can spend quality time with each of them ((without anybody fighting))!! II really hope I helped you out!! ~*()C.S()*~
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this is what you need to do talk tothem abou the
problem and then if that does not work go talk to your school counsler.
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Talk to them about it! I bet they don't even realize that it's really hurting you. Good luck, I hope everything works out!
Hope I helped!
Happy Holidays!
~*Erin*~
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well my parents always fought too, until they decided to get a divorice, and even today they still fight after 3 years of divorice.. i think the only reason they wont get a divorice is because of you, they dont want to hurt you. my parents waited for a while for me to get older and understand they cant be together no longer.. dont get upset at them, if you dont want to hear them talk to them and tell them to stop but dont yell back at them, or just simply go to your friends house for a lil while.. but hopefully they'll work things out.. x0
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I know how you feel. Unfortunately, there isn't really a lot you can do about it, other than simply talking to your parents. Maybe, if you express how you feel to them, they'll make efforts not to fight around you. Sorry if I wasn't much help, but good luck.
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have you tried talking to them? maybe id be best to talk to them and tell them how you feel and tell them stop fighting and talk like adults should. maybe spend a few nights at a friends house and let them sort things out
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Hey, I know how you feel, my parents are the same as yours! You just have to tell them how you feel about their bickering that goes on mostly everyday! Just talk to them and they'll probably stop sometime soon! Most parents are like this sometimes! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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you should probably talk to them about it. i went through that same situation, so i know how you feel. maybe have them talk to you about their issues and maybe you could help them out. hope i helped!
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that really sucks.. things will eventually work out so dont worry about your parents! go out and just try to stay away from your parents when they are fighting because that will cause a lot more stress if you are there like listening. and no one wants unnessesary stress it will just mess things up. so just stay away until they are done fighting.. believe me it may not sound too fun but things WILL work themselves out. so dont wory about it! good luck
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