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Get out?


Question Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 4:10 pm

Today My dad told me I needed to pack my bags and get out... what can I do... I have no where to go or anything... My friends arnt at home and most of the ones who are dont want to come between my parents and myself... what to do? Plz Help...

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dinoold answered Sunday October 24 2004, 11:59 am:
Was this during an argument?? What casued this. you kow Unless he removed me from the place I would stay put. But if he starts to be abusive you need to get help. Where is your MOM? What about other amily members.

You need to talk to an adult how old are you??

can you sit him down now and discuss what amde him so amd as to throw you out?

can you support yourself or are you in school?

maybe by suggesting finishing your school will calm him down

Something triggered this...am thinking of you.

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lynx_wings answered Sunday October 17 2004, 7:33 pm:
Call your relatives.

Are there any youth hostels in your area? Try those.

If you're under 18, then def. call your relatives. If you're over 18, go for the hostel.

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mindteaser answered Sunday October 17 2004, 6:23 pm:
How old are you because if you are under 18 then either two things are happening: 1)You are doing something against your parents wishs or 2)You have terrible parents. I doubt its 2 if your under 18. If your over 18 then maybe you need to get out. If your doing something that your parents dont agree with then maybe you should think of where you are(in there house). So they can make you do whatever they want and whenever they get ready and when get your own house you will be able to do the same but until then you have to tough it out if you want a stable home enviroment.

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MissIiVannaH answered Sunday October 17 2004, 5:09 pm:
I think you should goto your mom or any other really close family member.Talk to a grown up as soon as possible.Talk to your dad what was so bad to cause him to kick you out?But seriously you need to get in contact with a close family member.I'm sorry if that wasn't any help.but wutever you do take money with you.Good Luck I wish it works out for the best.

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RaZzLeDaZzLe2011 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 4:40 pm:
why did he want you to get out? call one of your grandparents/aunts/uncles etc. and tell them what happened. your dad has no right to just kick you out of the house. they will help you. let me know how it goes, my email address is razzledazzle8272@yahoo.com i hope i helped!

~Jen

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Mercy_x_Me answered Sunday October 17 2004, 4:33 pm:
umm chances are that he's just really mad and he doesn't actually want you to leave. If your over 18 then you need to go even if it means that you have t o go to a homeless shelter. But since it doesnt sound like your over 18 you have every right to live with your dad and if he doesnt stop this wierd talk you could just clal the police. He can't literally make you get out hes obligated to support you. gl xoxo

this real?
i hope it is...it sounds awfully strange

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alisonmarie answered Sunday October 17 2004, 4:31 pm:
You can always call the operator and ask to speak to someone who works in social services or in the department for family and child welfare. These people are not interested in making things tough for your family, but they WILL find you a place to stay, talk to your family, and try to get things sorted out between you and your dad so that you can move home again.

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Sherry answered Sunday October 17 2004, 4:16 pm:
Do you go to a church? If so, go over someone's house from church. Or go to your grandparents house, . Just go everywhere you can and see if they can take you in. I hope I helped and I hope everything works out.

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liddylflirtx3 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 4:15 pm:
If you have any other family members that in the same state as you, you need to call them! If not, go to one of your friend's houses. Even if they aren't home, I'm sure that their parents will take you in out of curiousity and will hopefully make the situation a little better for you. Tell them that all you need is a home for now, and that they're not getting in the middle of you and your father.

I'm very sorry for you, I hope everything is better! Feel free to IM me if you need some more advice, sweetie! Screenname: XO SWEET PEA O3

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