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help me~!!!!
i babysit for this young couple, and they have 2 kids, the guy is like 21 and he is sooooooooo cute, and ive become friends with him, and the other night we were talking and he leaned in to kiss me, so we kissed and then he like got up and said it was time he took me home, he isnt happily married, he only married her cuz she was pregnant and i have a crush on him, im 17 by the way, what should i do???????......Alisha
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hmmm good ? if he isn't happily married they shouldn't be together. you guys should be friends n talk and stuff n see what it leads you to..keep askn ?'s Kz
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You shouldnt really mess with somebody who is married dont mess with a couple... and you dont know if you they got married for other reasons so you dont got room to speak there and as for the kids... dont mess with it then-trix
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get different people to babysit for!!!!! ASAP!!!
Run run run run FAST!!!
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HE'S MARRIED, do u realize that if this continues YOU WILL BE A HOME WRECKER. Have u ever thought about the fact that now you're the other woman, and if he does it once, and u end up together he could do it again to you, this might be hard for you, but STOP babysittin for him, and you need to find a way to tell her, like tell her, or write an anonymous letter telling her that sum1(or u can even let her know it was you) shared an intimate moment with her husband. Even a simple kiss is considered an intimite moment. Also, HE has children, and think if the only reason he ,married sum1 is because they're pregnant, than he must not be that GREAT of a guy. What u have is a teenage crush, and if it goes on for too long you could do sumthin u regret. End it now, or follow your heart, if u SERIOUSLY still believe he's a WONDERFUL man, date him, but as long as he's married, have nuthin to do wit him, and as long as your not a reason for them divorcing, go ahead, but i hope u know wut u'll be gettin urself into
Good Luck, i hope u dont consider me being rude or anything
I TRULY hope all goes well 4 u!
:) KaTe :)
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Get the heck away from this guy! You want to have a relationship with someone who cheats on his wife. She needs to get a dogsitter for him, a babysitter for the kids. Seriously, this is an unhealthy situation. Regardless of how "unhappy" he is, he is 21, is MARRIED and has 2 kids. You are 17 and have a million positive opportunities waiting in your life. Stay away from this "unhappy" guy, or you'll be sharing the same fate as his current wife.
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wow i think u should think about his wife and chldren he might not be happily married but that doesent mean his wife is'nt maybe for the time being u to should just stick to being friends atleast till u find outhow he really feels about u or untill u find another job lol if u feel that being with him is worth breaking his family up for than go for it but i strongly suggest u think about his faimly first
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u don't wanna be a home recker so i say swallow ur pride and move on they got kidz together and i mean u don't want tha babyz 2 grow up wit one parent due 2 a divorce. u don't want that on ur chest.
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He may be cute, he may not be happily married, but he is still married! Plus he is 21 and your 17, think about...your jail bait!
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Stop babybsitting for them. He is hitting on the babysiter and he is married! He is not a good guy if he is cheating on his wife, nor does he sound very responsible. I don't care if you think he is cute, what you did was wrong. Even if he made the first move, you should have said no. Don't let things get any further, stop babysiting for them.
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I wouldn't pursue him. He may not be happy, but he has a family. You don't want to tear his family apart just because of a crush. If he gets divorced or leaves his wife, then pursue him, but not until then.
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even tho hes cute and u think hes the best thing there hes probably confused cuase he is young so just let him go cause he has kids and thats most important and if hes right for u he'll come back to u sooner or later but u should focus on guys that r single and cute and fit u for u
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You may have a crush on him, but it'sbest if you back off of him. You wouldn't want your husband to do that... I mean, they may not be happily married but by cheating with him, it basically loses their shots at saving their marrige. I would hold off your feelings for him until they separate or get a divorce or something... it might not be the easy choice but it would be a right one. If there's anymore to this story or anythign else let me know in my column and i would be more than happy to help you, or give the best adivce possible.
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It doesn't matter whether or not they're happily married. They're still married. Do you really want the reputation of a mistress? No one likes that kind of person. Get over him unless you want a reputation as a slut. Sorry to be so harsh but I hate hate hate people like that, a woman like that ruined my family and I hate her so much. Do you really want to upset the kids by a divorce? Cuz they WILL hate you eventually...Don't do it!
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