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Should I do it with him?
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 8:45 pm
I'm seventeen years old.
So I don't consider myself too young to be having sex,the thing is I just am apprehensive to go all the way. Two reasons.
1. My mom who is very domineering would absolutely flip out, she'd go crazy.
and
2. I don't want to tell my doctor, because I don't want a pap test (she said after I was sexualy active I had to.) I just don't want her to think I'm skanky, even though she can't tell my mom it makes me nervous that she'll have to let it slip.
Physicaly though, I'm ready, I could easily get my head around the idea of sex.
I've been fingered and such.
Like today my boyfriend and I were 'fooling around', and he was like "i don't want to presure you but wh...
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How do I talk to him?
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 8:26 pm
i like this guy a lot, and i have liked him for a really long time. The problem is, i don't know how to approach him! I've talked to him before, but I don't know how to do it again. Like, i don't know how to start talking to him or stuff. And i'm really nervous to talk to him. I don't have him in any of my classes, but I see him around school a couple of times. What can i do to help me be less nervous, and what should i say when i first talk to him? Also, should i start talking to him when he's alone, or when he's with other people? And should i go talk to him by myself, or bring my friends with me?
Or, should i just email him or something?
I would really appreciate it if you would answer my questions.
Thanks :)
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boys boys boys--so confusing so little time...
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 8:19 pm
okay well me and this guy have been getting to know each other, we are aquaintances, and i think that he might have a little bit of a crush on me, but he has a girlfriend...so my main question is can you tell me how i can tell if he likes me..?? thank you
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is he my BF or should i give up?
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 7:39 pm
16/f
ive had a crush on this guy for almost a year now, and we just recently starting going out. i am very happy with this, i mean we are like perfect for eachother ((atlest i think)) and its been two days by the way. after he asked me out him and i were on the phone for another two hours. i asked him "so are we serious now?" and he was like "yes, i really want to start a relationship with you, i mean i really like you. i have somse things i need to srot out in my life, and ive never had a girlfriend in school before so i dont know how this is going to work, but for now, lets not tell anyone." so ive only told a few people that i can trust who wont tell, and they haven't. this guy and i are hanging out this weeken...
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Sexual Orientation
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 7:15 pm
14/f.
I think guys are waywaywaywayway hot.
Like, I totally like guys.
But sometimes, I think girls are hot.
Like, I think Mandy Musgrave (the actress who plays Ashley Davies on south of nowhere) is wayyyy hot.
And I think her kissing gabriel ("spencer") is way hot.
But, I wouldn't want to actually do anything with her.
Same thing goes for these two chicks at my school,
and one of the ppl in T.A.T.U. (the russian band)
idk, like, i think they're hot,
i think them kissing other girls are hot,
but i wouldnt want to kiss them or anything, like i would a guy.
soo what does this make me ?
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Talking to this guy
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 6:51 pm
Ok so I have a huge crush on this guy. Oh by the way I'm 13/f. I'm in 8th grade too. Well my school is year round so I am off for the rest of this month and Feb. Well he talks to me a lot. And I have 3 classes with him. He sits behind me in one and sits next to me in another and the last one is P.E. so we don't really sit. But he pulls my hair when he sits behind my and he is so funny. He drops something then I pick it up. He is hilarious though, he can make anyone laugh. The thing is I never have the guts to start talking to him and we have never really had a real conversation except once. But I wanna know how to talk to him like start a conversation. He usually ask me something and I answer and yeah its over. Sorry it was long but can you please help! Thanks!
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not commited.
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 6:03 pm
im 15/f and i like this 17/m.
we both go to the same school. he is a senior and i am a sophmore. yeah i know it seems pointless, and your probably saying to yourself that im dumb because he will graduate with in a few months. I really really like him though and he really really likes me. He has asked me to be his "girlfriend" ..so ill put it, and i said no because i feel i will just be heartbroken in the end because he is graduating. The thing is though I really want to go out with him and be his girlfriend but I have horrible realtionship issues, and I feel i will become attached and it will all just go down hill from there. I really need some advice please help me if you can. Thank you so much.
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life expeirences
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 4:58 pm
alright, this question really doesnt involve all you advicenator memebers to think that much, haha. All i want from you guys is to tell me about a relationship you had (guys and girls) that lasted for about over a year but then broke up. Why did you? Wasnt it hard because it was over a year? How is it now? What did you do after the break up? Im 15, male, and sophomore in highschool with a girlfriend for about a year. Any people with a long term relationship around my age would be perfect, thanks!...again, just a brief summary of what happend to your long term relationship, thanks!!!:-)
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breakup help please
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 4:03 pm
16 f
i was going out with this guy on and off for 2 years. he was like the best thing that happeend to me. now we broke up and its official. he was my first love seriously. when i had a bad day he was the only one who could cheer me up. we had a bad breakup so yeah. he confessed that he cheated on me for 8 months and didnt breakup with me becuase he liked me and the girl at the same time. i feel horrible. i dont know what to do. i cant stop crying im so depressed. in 1 day i cry like 7 times. and i get horrible headaches but i cant stop crying like the tears just come out. i cant talk to anyone i dont feel comfterable talking to anyone about this, becuase i have always been the strong girl. but now im weak and i cant help it. i lost ...
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love trianle
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 3:55 pm
well let me tell you all a story and whoever wants to can help me out.
about 3 years ago me and this boy Erin fell for eachother. my best gal pal melanie thought he was hot as well. we both agreed we wouldnt get mad at eachother if he just so happend to go out with one of us. we he just so happend to go out with me. she wasnt upset at all infact her and her new bf and me and erin would double date. well all of a sudden OUT OF NOWHERE i lost feelings for him. i really didnt want anything to do with him and didnt want to be near him. i ignored his phone calls and everything. i broke up with him through melanie on the internet, lame i know but it was the strangest thing! i dont know what came over me i just stop likiung him and began to...
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more cool ways to make out
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 3:18 pm
my boyfriend and i like trying new things when we make out. we've done it with gum, mints, and up-side-down (which is really hot, by the way).
what other things can we do or add to make it more fun? :)
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He wants to be with me...but I could never see us being toge
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 1:09 pm
Me 15/F him, 15/M
We both live in europe. Just bear that in mind :)
Hokay, well I have known Seth(him) since I was about 6.
When we turned 13 we became very close. Like we would always be together, and we acted like a couple, sometimes even kissed..but we weren't a couple.
Since his family is good friends with mine, every year we go on a snowboard/ski trip to France(Alps).
This year, since we were both 15, we got a ''ski apartment'' to ourselves. We spent all our time together, and since last year, he's taught me how to snowboard.
We ride together, we do everything together for those two weeks that we stay there.
One night we got pretty drunk and I was lying on him on ...
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Bahh. whhaatt?
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 12:59 pm
Sorry if it's in the wrong cat.!
Right, I'm wondering whether I've done ''too much stuff'' or not.
The first time I made out..like with tongues with a guy was when I was 13.
First time I kissed someone properly w/o tongues was when I was 12.
Since I've made out with about 10 or so guys. And had about 5 boyfriends.
I've had my hand in a guys pants..but like just in his trousers..not boxers =/
And I've played very flirty with a few guys.
Is this too much..?
I'm 15/F
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hepl
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 6:53 am
i recently asked a quistion, about my mom being mad that i had sex. Ok well, last night I found out that mydad knows, and my mom says i broke his heart.and also that if he ever saw my bf agin, hed kill him. And that my bf and my bfs mom were going to get an earful.so what do i do now? My bf, his mom, and i are all hated. and if not me, then how do I save this relationship? Or worse, how do I get the scwardness gone from my dad. Because I don't seee him untill Saturday.
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Valentines Day Help
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 3:36 am
Alright, so this is the first Valentines day I'll have a boyfriend, and I have NO IDEA what to get my boyfriend...hes really sweet and I love him to death but he is the hardest person to shop for. He spent alot of money on my christmas present and I feel bad...so I wanted to get him something really memorable for Valentines day. Hes kinda a redneck and likes outdoorsy stuff. Well any help would be appreciated!!!
Thanks a bunch
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who to believe?
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 12:46 am
I've been talking to this guy for about two weeks now and we really get along. Its cute because he's my best friend's boyfriend's friend and we go on double dates! Well my cousin used to like him, but she has a boyfriend and is younger than him! Well today I found out from my cousin that he had sex with this girl last wednesday. She heard it from our other cousin's best friend who talks to the girl who had sex with him. So I asked the guy & he first started with "where'd u hear that from? Who told u? That's extreme!" I asked to just answer the question & he said NO way. I told my best friend and she told me that my cousin had lied about that type of stuff before to our other friend. I'm not sure if she just lied because sh...
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Long Distance
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 12:16 am
My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. We started going out in high school and last fall I went 2 and a half hours away to college, while he remains at home. He told me this weekend that the distance is getting hard for him. Does anyone know any ideas to help this problem. He comes up one or two times a month, we talk a lot and I don't have a car to go back home.
Any ideas would be so much help.
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My Boyfriend's Ex-Girlfriend
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 12:12 am
my bf went to 2nd with this girl he used to date and they didnt even like each other very much and it didnt mean anything but he knew she was experienced and wanted to get some experience lol. anyway so they made out and went to 2nd and i know 2nd base doesnt seem like that much but for the types of people he and i are thats pretty far. both of us are saving our virginity and possibly 3rd too. [2nd base=touched her breasts btw in case you didnt know] soo i cant let go of this. i am so jealous of this girl. i probably could let go if i wanted but i dont want to get past it either. i just want to know why you guys think i care so much.
my bf thinks when we go to 2nd i wont care anymore but im not sure. he and i could go there ...
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does he like me?
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 12:05 am
okay so theres this guy who used to have a thing with my best friend. but now there just really good friends. then i met him threw her. me and him flirted a lot. talked online for like 5 hours straight almost everyday. just talking about everything. i love talking to him. he kind of has a girlfriend. well they broke up and now there sort of together but they dont call eachother boyfirned & girlfriend. so hes still single. but they have a kind of thing. & hes told me a few times he likes me more then her. if thats true why do you still like her? ugh so confusing. so i went to a party with my best friend that is friends with the boy i like. nd me nd her were jokin and telling everyone we hooked up with a ton of guys. so she told him t...
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guyss
Posted Monday January 28 2008, 11:25 pm
if a guy says "good night, beautiful" to you, what's something witty to say back to him if you like him? but you're not going out. like you're friends but he says that quite often to you?
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