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i recently asked a quistion, about my mom being mad that i had sex. Ok well, last night I found out that mydad knows, and my mom says i broke his heart.and also that if he ever saw my bf agin, hed kill him. And that my bf and my bfs mom were going to get an earful.so what do i do now? My bf, his mom, and i are all hated. and if not me, then how do I save this relationship? Or worse, how do I get the scwardness gone from my dad. Because I don't seee him untill Saturday.
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Amen, Nova!
You aren't hated, you are loved. Your parents are disappointed. They don't want you making foolish mistakes. They want you to be a kid- not have one.
Contrary to popular belief, sex is an act for those who can handle the consequences and be responsible for another life.
Trust me- you live with mommy and/or daddy, you can't afford to be responsible for another life.
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I'd be telling my dad sorry and never see this guy again! What on earth are you thinking? You think your parents want to raise another child? I'd be sweating too until Saturday. Who cares about all this lovey-dovey crap. Unless you are financially responsible or are at least old enough to get a job, to take care of a baby then don't have sex. You are playing with fire every time you have sex.
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The best thing for you to do is to talk to both of them when you have the chance.
Tell them that what you did was nothing wrong, you were just both expressing your feelings towards to one and another. There is nothing wrong in that. Only those who're ashamed of what they've done think that it was wrong. You're not like that, you and your boyfriend really love each other and the fact that you had sex proves that.
Times are changing rapidly, even though we aren't aware of the change. These times are different to your parents where it was restricted, but now, people want to express their feelings to one and another.
The two of you love each other and no amount of violence will change that. In fact, it would strenghten the bond between the two of you because you need each other. When your parents were young, they had intense feelings for other before they met each other, everybody does. There is nothing different about this.
Call your dad and say that you want to speak to him and your mum on Sunday about this.
Any further help which you want, don't hesitate to drop a question into my inbox,
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