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He wants to be with me...but I could never see us being toge
Me 15/F him, 15/M
We both live in europe. Just bear that in mind :)
Hokay, well I have known Seth(him) since I was about 6.
When we turned 13 we became very close. Like we would always be together, and we acted like a couple, sometimes even kissed..but we weren't a couple.
Since his family is good friends with mine, every year we go on a snowboard/ski trip to France(Alps).
This year, since we were both 15, we got a ''ski apartment'' to ourselves. We spent all our time together, and since last year, he's taught me how to snowboard.
We ride together, we do everything together for those two weeks that we stay there.
One night we got pretty drunk and I was lying on him on the big sofa, and I fell asleep. I woke up a bit later and started kissing him, because I wanted him, sooo bad.
But I can't imagine us being together, like a couple.
He said that he'd liked me since he was 13... but he knows that we'll prob. never ever date.
We do go out together a lot and so on...but I donno.
I love him. I do. Not as a friend..I love him, but why can't I see us together??!
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Okay, i definatly know how this feels because ive been here 1 tooo many times. Well to be honest because you two have known each other so long, you tend to look at him as family like a brother then as a boyfriend. and thats okay. but usually when you grow up with someone like that and then date them its pretty arkward, and it never turns out to be the relationship you want it to be. Thats why you see alot of best friends who date && brake up are never really close again. it takes years to build up a friendship but just a few moments for it to shatter into a million peices. keep that in mind. but another thing, communication is def key in any friendship or relationship. if you really think you love him, i def. think you shud see if he feels the same. be open and honest it might be hard but its worth a shot. i hope i helped <3
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When you've known somebody that long, you will always think of them as friends, no matter what you're feelings are and that's why you don't see a future with him.
I can't really think of a way which you'll get around this, but there is one which you might not like to do, it's your call: begin to treat him not as a friend and see him more of a boyfriend, go out with him on dates because that's the only way i can see of going aroind this. I know that he says that you'll never date each other, but it seems to be the only way. Give it a shot and see what happens. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work, things happen for a reason and i think the reason for this, is to test you two to see if you can make it to a realtionship where friendship doesn't interfere.
Give it a go and see what happens. Good luck with the future,
triquetra
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I think its because you have been good friends for so long that thats the only way you can see him. Give it a chance you know he likes you so it's not really a risk if you tell him that you want to be a couple. Best of luck
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