Right, I'm wondering whether I've done ''too much stuff'' or not.
The first time I made out..like with tongues with a guy was when I was 13.
First time I kissed someone properly w/o tongues was when I was 12.
Since I've made out with about 10 or so guys. And had about 5 boyfriends.
I've had my hand in a guys pants..but like just in his trousers..not boxers =/
That's not 'too much' at all. I myself have had only one long term boyfriend but we've covered all the bases pretty much apart from actual sex - but most of the people I know have done alot of stuff with alot of guys. What you say you;ve done doesn't seem like 'too much' at all. It sounds like you enjoy having fun and, good. Rightly so. You're young and now is the time to be experimenting with this stuff! If it comes naturally to you, then it's not exceeding the limit at all. It doesn't matter how far you go as long as you make the decision happily, or however many times. Just don't ever get into anything that depresses you and still carry on with it... it won't do any good :)
thelaura answered Tuesday January 29 2008, 1:17 pm: If you're questioning whether it might be too much, it clearly is in your mind, whether you realize it or not.
and in my personal opinion, yeah, I'd say so. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
orphans answered Tuesday January 29 2008, 1:13 pm: Well, everyone goes at their own speed, but kissing a guy when you were 12 might not have been the best way to go about things, but you were younger than, and you didn't think much of it. I'm 15/f and I know girls just like you who are in your position, but really, you need to figure out if you feel you are going too fast, because if this is really making you uncomfortable, go slower, don't rush it. But if not, I just say keep doing what you're doing, but you're only 15, take your time. Have fun. yuh know?
Good luckk [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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