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who to believe?
I've been talking to this guy for about two weeks now and we really get along. Its cute because he's my best friend's boyfriend's friend and we go on double dates! Well my cousin used to like him, but she has a boyfriend and is younger than him! Well today I found out from my cousin that he had sex with this girl last wednesday. She heard it from our other cousin's best friend who talks to the girl who had sex with him. So I asked the guy & he first started with "where'd u hear that from? Who told u? That's extreme!" I asked to just answer the question & he said NO way. I told my best friend and she told me that my cousin had lied about that type of stuff before to our other friend. I'm not sure if she just lied because she likes him or if she's tellin the truth? What's your opinion? The guy is kind of a jock, really popular, too.
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You should trust the person you trust most. Personally, I would trust him because it would be a very stupid lie to tell you, only for you to find out later and get hurt.
Make sure whether the story is true or not and to do that is to go directly to the source, the friend who claims to have slept with him and see if the discription matches your boyfriend. It it does (and i hope it doesn't come to this), go to your boyfriend again and ask the same question and see what he says.
But more importantly, trust your instincts. You know he loves you and you know that you love him.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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This is hard because you have stated that she liked him but had a boyfriend and you also said he kind of got snippy when asked ... I look at it this way... To me it sounds like she is trying to keep him available incase anything goes wrong with her current relationship. and he may have gotten snippy because he feels like you don't trust him and doesn't want to be put on the spot like that. If your best friend says that your cousin lied about stuff like that before i would believe him because she obviously can't be trusted ... good luck
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