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My Boyfriend's Ex-Girlfriend
my bf went to 2nd with this girl he used to date and they didnt even like each other very much and it didnt mean anything but he knew she was experienced and wanted to get some experience lol. anyway so they made out and went to 2nd and i know 2nd base doesnt seem like that much but for the types of people he and i are thats pretty far. both of us are saving our virginity and possibly 3rd too. [2nd base=touched her breasts btw in case you didnt know] soo i cant let go of this. i am so jealous of this girl. i probably could let go if i wanted but i dont want to get past it either. i just want to know why you guys think i care so much.
my bf thinks when we go to 2nd i wont care anymore but im not sure. he and i could go there in a couple months or w/e but i dont know if that would make it go away. that was his first kiss, first gf, and first time going to 2nd! it makes me so angry. he has dated other girls i totally dont care about but she was the one he went to 2nd with and it bothers me sooo much!!!
can anyone please help me? i want to know why i feel this way before i try to get over it. i dont feel inferior and my bf tells me he loves me and what he has done with me means way more than what he did with her. but he liked it-he has that memory with her and always will. i can just picture them making out and him going to 2nd with her and it upsets me so much!!! i am the first one he said i love you to and i know he cares but even when he tells me she didnt mean anything it doesnt matter to me because i am still upset.
he thinks its because i feel like she has something on me and when he and i get there i wont care anymore but i dont know if that will make me feel better or not. for some reason this means a lot to me with our relationship yet he doesnt understand why. he knows im jealous and he knows it was a mistake but i still am upset.
can anyone please help me? just tell me what you think could be it because i am trying to find out myself and i cant figure out why i am so upset and dont want to let go and feel like i cant get past this. thanks soo much!!! :]
oh and he doesnt like her and doesnt talk to her-hes seen her a couple times and told her he just doesnt want to talk to her or anything and hes the one who dumped her
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You feel like this cuz hes your boyfreind and you love him!duh!Its inevitable that you get angry at something like this and you should NOT let it go!You need to talk to him and tell him that he needs to have some repsect for you cuz your his girlfreind not that other gurl,he wouldnt like it if YOU did that with some other guy!I don blame you for being angry its his fault.Even if theyre no longer together and she means nothing to him does NOT mean he can go around doin shit with other gurlz.You tell him!lol good luck
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well frist was you and him going out at the time because if so that is so wrong and he should be doing the stuff he does thats wrong and ya i know i was scared when i frist lost mine
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jealousy is a natural human emotion. even though we may not like it, it's natural. some people are jealous over things like these because they're afraid of the other person going back to their ex because it was their first time and they may have mistaken that for love. you could have a fear of losing him.
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