okay im always honest no matter what the case is i have no reason to lie i always give advice to people the best i can and im usally always right i have 3 kids but one died befor it was born im having a nother one and im ennged about to be getting married soon
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I am 34/F. My best friend/cousin told me the other day that she has contemplated not being friends with me anymore because of things I say to her, i.e., I told her I wasn't going to an event because it was boring, and she was offended because it is part of her family tradition and her parents plan it every year. (I had no idea her parents planned it. It is a city-sponsored event.) She also said that when I was little, my mom would talk crap about her family and I would repeat it to them. I don't doubt that this is true, but it happened when I was a kid so I can't remember anything that was said, and neither can my cousin. She just remembers it happening. I teasingly called her a "hoverer," and she was offended because she has heard me in the past say that others were hoverers and it was negative.
I am upset that she has contemplated not being my friend anymore and also that she seems to be overly sensitive. I actually watch what I say around her because I know she is overly sensitive to begin with, I just didn't realize how much. I have not spoken with her since she told me all this. What should I do/say? (link)
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well i think you should call your cuzin and talk to her about tell her how you feel and tell her your sorry just be complet honest with her and your self
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Alright, so I'm 16 and a sophmore in highschool. My freshmen year I was a great kid, I did everything I was suppose to and never did anything wrong, I didnt even have my first kiss til the end of freshmen year. Anyways...I was really a good kid until the begining of this year (sophmore year) and now I'm not a bad kid...but I'm not the sweet little angel I was last year. I've started smoking and drinking.I cut myself (not bad enough to really hurt anything and I really dont want to be lectured about that, I know its bad and I know I shouldnt do it) And I've gone alot further with my boyfriend than I thought I would. I'm even starting to think about having sex with him. I dont know what made me start doing all this. Well recently, I havent been sleeping....at all...and I cant tell if its because I just cant sleep or if it has something to do with all this other stuff. I barley make it through class anymore. I'm still passing all my classes and everything but I can barley stay awake through any of them. Last night I had two hours of sleep. I guess I just wanted to know if you guys had any ideas (without talking to my parents) on how to sleep better...That doesnt really make sence does it? Oh well....Thanks for all of your help. (link)
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ya well it sounds like you are getting with the wrong cowrad and you need to get out befor its to late because im may be young but ive always gave people advice and ive always been right well what you need to about the sleeping thing is clear mind and lay in your bed or where ever close your eyes and just go to sleep talk to someone tell them that you have alot on your mind right now tell them whats going on with out excally telling them if that makes any senice and they can help you and get you medician okay
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i like my best friend i have for so long. he used to like me. we didnt wana do anything to loose our friendship. but it pretty much is gone. we had a very rough time for a while. but we stuck threw that. if we could stay in a relationship and make it work the breakup wouldnt hurt that bad if were still that close i just am not sure at all what to do... HELP ME PWEEEEEEEESE (link)
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ya i know what you mean i use to like one of my best friends so i know how that is but you just got to be complet honest with your self and your friend thats the only way and maybe if yall do ever break up yall can still be friends
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my bf went to 2nd with this girl he used to date and they didnt even like each other very much and it didnt mean anything but he knew she was experienced and wanted to get some experience lol. anyway so they made out and went to 2nd and i know 2nd base doesnt seem like that much but for the types of people he and i are thats pretty far. both of us are saving our virginity and possibly 3rd too. [2nd base=touched her breasts btw in case you didnt know] soo i cant let go of this. i am so jealous of this girl. i probably could let go if i wanted but i dont want to get past it either. i just want to know why you guys think i care so much.
my bf thinks when we go to 2nd i wont care anymore but im not sure. he and i could go there in a couple months or w/e but i dont know if that would make it go away. that was his first kiss, first gf, and first time going to 2nd! it makes me so angry. he has dated other girls i totally dont care about but she was the one he went to 2nd with and it bothers me sooo much!!!
can anyone please help me? i want to know why i feel this way before i try to get over it. i dont feel inferior and my bf tells me he loves me and what he has done with me means way more than what he did with her. but he liked it-he has that memory with her and always will. i can just picture them making out and him going to 2nd with her and it upsets me so much!!! i am the first one he said i love you to and i know he cares but even when he tells me she didnt mean anything it doesnt matter to me because i am still upset.
he thinks its because i feel like she has something on me and when he and i get there i wont care anymore but i dont know if that will make me feel better or not. for some reason this means a lot to me with our relationship yet he doesnt understand why. he knows im jealous and he knows it was a mistake but i still am upset.
can anyone please help me? just tell me what you think could be it because i am trying to find out myself and i cant figure out why i am so upset and dont want to let go and feel like i cant get past this. thanks soo much!!! :]
oh and he doesnt like her and doesnt talk to her-hes seen her a couple times and told her he just doesnt want to talk to her or anything and hes the one who dumped her (link)
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well frist was you and him going out at the time because if so that is so wrong and he should be doing the stuff he does thats wrong and ya i know i was scared when i frist lost mine
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ive had sex about 9 times and theyve all been pretty hardcore. isnt your cherry suppose to pop your first time and isnt it suppose to hurt extremely badly? this hasnt happened to me. is this abnormal? (link)
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okay yes your cherry is suppise to pop your frist time but are they pushing it in all the way and no it doesnt hurt extremely badly and no this is not normal maybe you should see some one about this
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