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Question Posted Monday January 28 2008, 11:45 pm

ive had sex about 9 times and theyve all been pretty hardcore. isnt your cherry suppose to pop your first time and isnt it suppose to hurt extremely badly? this hasnt happened to me. is this abnormal?

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JustSomeone answered Monday February 18 2008, 12:05 pm:
when mine broke, it was threw sex and i didnt even know!
my boyfriend told me like a week later that i bled, but i didnt even see the blood or feel it. so, if youve had sex 9 times, and "hardcore" im pretty sure its broken :)

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orphans answered Thursday January 31 2008, 6:04 pm:
When your hymen breaks, it doesn't always hurt extremly. It can break through nonsexual activities like horseback riding or even riding your bike. It's probably broken already. It can break easily...well not really easily but easily. When mine broke, I didn't even know! It didn't bleed or even hurt.

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MAK answered Tuesday January 29 2008, 5:58 pm:
Its only a rumor that its ALWAYS supposed to hurt. Some girls don't feel anything. Some girls don't even bleed. Some girls were born without one, and others already had their hymen torn through other (nonsexual) activities. Your hymen is probably broken.

~Maria, 16

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Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday January 29 2008, 3:46 pm:
No, it is not abnormal. Your hymen can be broken via things other than intercourse - if this has happened, then it's normal that sex wouldn't hurt.
Yes, it does hurt like none other when your hymen is broken. It's also possible that you just don't have one.
There are a lot of reasons that would explain sex not hurting, but by no means does it mean you're abnormal.
Good luck!
-Siren =)

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netsirk07 answered Tuesday January 29 2008, 2:47 pm:
there are other ways to "pop" it. Your Hymen, can be broken by finering, a tampon or even playing sports.

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kendall_wifey answered Tuesday January 29 2008, 6:32 am:
okay yes your cherry is suppise to pop your frist time but are they pushing it in all the way and no it doesnt hurt extremely badly and no this is not normal maybe you should see some one about this

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asward2006 answered Tuesday January 29 2008, 5:23 am:
I'm sure it has you probably just didn't notice it ... not all girls do

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Uniq_The_Geek answered Tuesday January 29 2008, 1:00 am:
well huni not all girls bleed the first time. some dont bleed at all others do. so its not abnormal dont worry.

flirty =]

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