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is he my BF or should i give up?
16/f
ive had a crush on this guy for almost a year now, and we just recently starting going out. i am very happy with this, i mean we are like perfect for eachother ((atlest i think)) and its been two days by the way. after he asked me out him and i were on the phone for another two hours. i asked him "so are we serious now?" and he was like "yes, i really want to start a relationship with you, i mean i really like you. i have somse things i need to srot out in my life, and ive never had a girlfriend in school before so i dont know how this is going to work, but for now, lets not tell anyone." so ive only told a few people that i can trust who wont tell, and they haven't. this guy and i are hanging out this weekend and we are only to relaly have a relationship outside of school even though we go to the same school. does this mean that he doesn't want to be my boyfriend? or does he just want ot be friends with benefits?
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Well I think that you should ask him why he wants to keep it a secret. use your judgement, if it seems like a pretty vaild reason then wait out for a bit, but if it seems like he is just using you then tell him to come back when he wants a public relationship. If he doesnt want people to know about you, either he is embarrassed by you, he has someone else on the side that he doesnt want to find out about you, and both of those are kind of crappy. on the other side, he might not want to get caught up in the whole teenage dating thing, and just wants to chill. You should talk to him though and find out what he things. If you want more help let me know, hope I helped, good luck,
love ya!
Angie91
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It could be that he noticed most couples in school slack off because they want to be with each other as much as possible that means skipping and being late to classes. I think he wants to stay on track with his studies. Does he really care alot about school? straight A student or a A B student? If not then there is something wrong. Good luck
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