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i kinda feel like a slut.
Posted Thursday February 21 2008, 3:31 pm
im a freshman girl, ive been in relationships before but only w/ guys my own age in like 8th grade were we kissed and thought it was a big deal. ive been flirting with this junior guy, (gorgeous and could get anyone) he called and asked me if i wanted to hangout last night so i had him over. lets just get to the point, we made out a lot, he felt me up, and i wouldnt let him do anythign else. I feel kinda bad, i dont like this guy really he's cuteee and so sweet to me (and when he met my parents). i dont think he's using me but im kinda using him i mean i dont love him or anything like that not even a crush. is this slutty? its highschool your supposed to have fun right?
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Dose he like me!
Posted Thursday February 21 2008, 3:17 pm
Okay there is this guy i know, he is a lot older than me. Well he always picks on me and stuff and plays around with me. And he has made a comment before that i would make a good wife to somone one day! But i kind of like him too but it would never work becuase of our age differnce!
Dose he like me or i am i just paranoid!
What should i do if he dose!
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some guy i know
Posted Thursday February 21 2008, 11:33 am
ok so i am 22 and he is 29. I dont mind the age difference because my parents are 10 years apart and they married when mum was 25 and dad at 35... oh and they are happy! anyway... so we met through mutual friends during our dads' company dinner once. (all kids old and young are forced to go) anyway so i knew everyone was trying to set us up and all and he seemed like he liked that though so he was being very open and talkative and inquisitive. thing is i am not usually like this but i froze like hells gone blue froze!
then he kept trying to call and all after but we were having such a busy month after that with my cousins baby shower and birth (i mean she's like a sister and we were basically part of her immediate family) so...
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ugh
Posted Thursday February 21 2008, 11:16 am
so let me do a little catch up for you guys so your not completely confused. i started dating my boyfriend in september, i love the kid to death. but he has messed up in our relationship a couple times i the begining he cheated on me with another girl i forgave him gave him another shot then in decemeber he did it again with another girl , that time i wasn't so nice about it i gave him one more shot and was a bitch for months. so ive finally been acting normal and he hasnt. he barely shows his attention to me anymore, he doesnt show that he likes me at all he does it randomly. i just found a message to some girl who he said he missed and then she said they should hang out . should i be sketched out ? cause .. i am and the girl is a complete...
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What the problem?
Posted Thursday February 21 2008, 10:07 am
Me and my boyfriend, has been dating on and off for about a year. And we did'nt become a couple officially until last thursday. So that would make it a week ago. And lately everything has just started to get so wierd. Sure, we're looking for our own place, I see him alot more, and stuff like that. But he just seem so lost. I mean, he hardly kiss me anymore, and that feeling I used to get whenever I saw him is gone, and when we go to bed he just falls down and just fall asleep, no goodnight kiss, no cuddling, no nothing. He don't even sleep under the same blanket as me. Same when we wake up, he just gets up, and go to work, not even a goodbye kiss. I's like I have to ask for it, to get it. I mean, I know it could be me just being paranoid, b...
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hellppp with boy
Posted Thursday February 21 2008, 1:21 am
so this boy (well, my bff) gave me a few lyrics to a song for valentines day. and they were totally simple, but they basically meant that he loved me, he'd love me forever (but like LOVE not like love ya!)
and i felt awkward so i totalyl ignored him because i didnt know how to respond
and since then we've talked normally, it was awkward at first
but my question is
is it too late to apologize for ignoring him and to tell him i feel the same way?
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kissing
Posted Thursday February 21 2008, 1:18 am
this one goes out to the girls out there!
so im a male. 17.
im not going to get into the story behind this but basically i had a disease, couldnt kiss the girl i love, disease is gone after a year, i can touch her, and i want our first kiss to be special
so you know how in no reservations the movie shes blind folded and hes feeding her things and then he kisses her? at least i think its that movie.
i want something awesome like that.
i really need ideas here
i dont care if its staged
i want to plan it before hand
and dont give me anything like itll be special regardless...you cant plan it...thats not the answer i want. i want it to be memorable.
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i need advice
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 9:04 pm
i like dis boy name Cory and he just said on valentine day "Stephanie can u b my counselor," i said, he said "cause im in love with you" i was just sitin there blush n. then my friend imani said "dats wat we were just takin about she said before you came in dat she liked you a littlte bit"
Now dat he know i like him he always lookin at me and talkin to me an always hugn me and stuff and he said on that same day "Stephanie do you wana go wit me?"
I froze i didnt know wat to say!!!
Now i need advice to knoew wat to do
can sum1 plzzzzzz help !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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unsatisfied
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 8:58 pm
im unsatisfied with my life right now. i recently had a breakup with a pretty long relationship. he moved on fast. i want to move on. ive been thinking a lot and finding myself despirately wanting another relationship thats even more amazing. i keep thinking about it. i know it doesnt just come that easily. i feel like i wont be happy until i have a great relationship like my last. then again, every opportunity i have had since the breakup, i denied it. i cant fall for anyone else other than my ex. it just doesnt feel right and ive been wanting a relationship that feels perfect. i dont like my friends. i dont like where i live every guy in my school is gross/asshole. how can i be happy again? how can i distract myself from this thought? how...
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Need Help
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 8:01 pm
Okay so I guess I'll start this whole big story from the very beginning. My friend and I just walk around school in the morning before class actually starts because there's nothing better to do. And after a few days my friend started noticing some kid that would always make really "awkward" eye contact with her. After a while of noticing him, we realized he was always in places where were. So we decided to follow him around some days and it was really fun because he never realized. One day while my friend and I were talking about him our other friend over heard and told us the kids name. So my friend and I found his Facebook and decided to talk to him. After a while of talking to him I realized he was a really cool guy. I eventual...
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Ask me 4 advice!
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 7:37 pm
If u are suffering from any kind of relationship i would b glad to help you out....so contact me if u need advice....!
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Do i wanna have sex or don't i????
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 6:47 pm
15F
All of my friends have either thought about or had sex...and i don't know what choice to make.....cause most of my friends are having sex and i don't wanna b one out of the bunch that doesnt have sex....so please help me before i make a wrong descision..
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BF doesn't fit in with my crowd
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 4:37 pm
So I'm a smart, all honors, straight A, talks intelligently kind of girl, but not at all in a way that turns people off. So basically I'm friends with SO many different kinds of people because i get along with everyone.
My boyfriend...hes a little anti social, a teeny bit socially awkward, and not as mature and smart as me.
But I really like him because even if he's not like me...we can relate on lots of levels and I love being with him and hanging around with him. Its just...at school...he doesnt fit in with my friends and its STRANGE. Plus...i HATE his friends. Even if theyre older than me, theyre so immature! What should i do about this situation? If it helps im 15 and hes 16.
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kiss
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 4:03 pm
so my boyfriend is like a reeally good kisser. and i no im not a good kisser. how can i be a really good kisser? what should i do with my tongue? how do you suck on someones lip and how do you nibble on their lip? please tell me everything you no. thanks! =}
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PROM.
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 3:11 pm
Hey, in 2 months is my junior prom and ive been dating this guy for a year and each year i always think of a cute way to ask him to a dance. but this year i was thinking maybe a scavenger hunt? any other ideas? i ran out of all my good onesss :( Thanks a bunch!!
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I can't live without sex
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 11:25 am
Alright, a bit more of an adult focused one, but I need some outside opinions.
So, my girlfriend is chronically ill. Not really sick, theres just always something wrong with her. She has migraines (she says, they dont seem to affect anything but her sex drive) she has body aches, she gets tired, she ________. Insert anything under the sun for the blank that doesnt require a doctor.
She used to have a sex drive that outstripped mine. Now, I'm lucky if we have sex once a week.
I don't know what to do about it. I used to be able to climb into bed with her, and seduce her. Now, she either ignores or rebuffs all the advances I make, and I only actually get to have sex when she is horny enough that ...
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What to do?
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 10:05 am
Me and my boyfriend just broke up. We broke up on good terms and we both still love each other but he felt like he needed to grow up some more before we can be together and be happy. I know that he is the one and I know that he loves me and wants to be with me and he thinks we will be able to get back together in a month or two and be perfectly happy, but I am having problems.
Like I said, I know he loves me but I keep having these thoughts that he doesn't or that he likes the way things are now. Whenever we talk he always says he misses me and I feel good for awhile but then I go back down into depression again until I hear from him again.
I don't know how to stop these thoughts. I don't know what to do with myself. All I t...
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crush on uninterested man
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 4:29 am
23f
I have a bf. He moved out and went to work quite far away. I see him once a week and talk on the phone everyday.
I have a crush on this older man. He is not really my type but is so understanding. Im sure he knows. It cannot ever happen though because 1. i have a bf and 2. he is in a position of responsibility and cant 3. he isnt actually interested - actually i think its annoying him.
How can I forget this man? It is so hard to stay away from him. He is like a safe haven in a storm.
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How desperate am I
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 2:16 am
Hello, I'm 17/M, and I've been thinking. Having a girlfriend is something I'd like to experience before I graduate high school. The problem is, I have no idea who to ask out. I meet a girl I have chemistry with maybe once every two years, and the last two girls I had chemistry with turned out to both be complete bitches. So who do I ask out if I'm in high school? One of the millions of cute girls I don't know? One of the millions of cute girls I'm friendly with? Or do I wait around for chemistry? I'd definately start asking girls out left and right, but I haven't ever dated and I don't want to try it for the first time with someone I don't feel comfortable with.
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Flirty Boyfriend
Posted Wednesday February 20 2008, 12:58 am
ok so i have this amazing boyfriend who i love soo much and i may be falling in love with him. the thing is we go to different schools cause i transfered half way through the yr to a private school. also he volunteers at this teen youth center place and i've never been there but im going to go with him soon. At that place he had his first gf where he made a mistake and went to 2nd with her. not i struggled with dealing with this but now im ok with it and we worked it out tho we havent even gone to 2nd yet. he made a mistake. anyway the problem now is im so worried that he flirts with other girls since im like never with him. this one girl likes him and he told her he had a gf but normally girls dont obviously flirt unless the boy has shown ...
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