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Flirty Boyfriend
ok so i have this amazing boyfriend who i love soo much and i may be falling in love with him. the thing is we go to different schools cause i transfered half way through the yr to a private school. also he volunteers at this teen youth center place and i've never been there but im going to go with him soon. At that place he had his first gf where he made a mistake and went to 2nd with her. not i struggled with dealing with this but now im ok with it and we worked it out tho we havent even gone to 2nd yet. he made a mistake. anyway the problem now is im so worried that he flirts with other girls since im like never with him. this one girl likes him and he told her he had a gf but normally girls dont obviously flirt unless the boy has shown sum interest and he talks to a lot of girls. ok he is good with girls. i know he is. his last couple gf's i know and i dont mind them just the first one. i am insecure about him being with other girls because he does flirt whether hes aware of it or not. he knows he does cause i've told him but he tells me there is no actual interest like he doesnt like them more then friends. but i am still nervous! i trust him but hes good with girls and girls seem to like him! also just the other day at our youth group he wasnt there but some random girl came up to me and asked where he was and he doesnt even know who she is!! this bothered me. What should i do and am i over reacting? i just love him so much and i know hes a flirt and half of his life i dont even know about and almost no one there at the place he volunteers knows he even has a gf so that leaves it wide open for him to get hit on!! i know he doesnt mean to flirt and hes told me not to worry and he would never cheat but i am jut so afraid of his flirtiness and those girls. he says he doesnt mean to and hes working on it but that hes still gonna act that way cause thats just how he is apparently. i understand cause im flirty too but i dont have as many guy friends as he does girls. he hangs with girls a lot. please help and thank you sooo much!!! I will rate :]
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I understand how you feel. My boyfriend also flirts a lot and he knows it. I know he doesn't mean it and it does tick me off a little but you know what? If I told him to stop he would never have fun because he would always be thinking if I was getting mad or it was too much.
You have to love him for him and trust that he is not honetly flirting. Some guys think it is just being nice while girls see it as flirting. I don't blame you for being threatened, and I know this won't help much but you just have to trust him and trust that he wants you and not those girls he may be flirting with.
The girls probably like him because they saw the same thing you saw in him and I think that is somewhat of a compliment because the guy that you think is so awesome is with you and not those other girls.
Don't complain to much to him...I made that mistake and believe me they get mad. They are who they are and you can't really change that.
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hey i wouldnt worry about a thing. hhes with YOU . you said it yourself, hes good with girls. if he wanted, he could be with others. so you should actually feel great because he has other options but he chooses to be with you :) you gota trust your man. i wouldnt start worrying unless he gets weird, like gets random calls and goes in private, leaves his phone off when hes with you, makes lame excuses why he cant hang out , etc. but dont worry about it ..trust him when he tells you there is no interest there. hes YOUR man :)
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Honestly I don't think you have anything to worry about. Lots of guys are huge flirts & they truly don't do it with the intention of cheating or anything, it's just how they interact.
If you trust him, you've got nothing to worry about. It just happens that most of the people he hangs around are girls. Most of my friends are guys, and my boyfriend's used to it (at least he said so, haha)
-LM
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