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How desperate am I
Hello, I'm 17/M, and I've been thinking. Having a girlfriend is something I'd like to experience before I graduate high school. The problem is, I have no idea who to ask out. I meet a girl I have chemistry with maybe once every two years, and the last two girls I had chemistry with turned out to both be complete bitches. So who do I ask out if I'm in high school? One of the millions of cute girls I don't know? One of the millions of cute girls I'm friendly with? Or do I wait around for chemistry? I'd definately start asking girls out left and right, but I haven't ever dated and I don't want to try it for the first time with someone I don't feel comfortable with.
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Part of the reason you date people is to find out if there IS chemistry. So yeah, Id say just find a girl that you find attractive whom you can have a conversation with and ask her out.
Think about it this way. You want to have dating experience, and you want to date people. You arent looking for "the one" right now. You're just looking for someone who wants to be in a relationship. Look for that, and let everything else flow as it will.
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Ok I know you want to date before the end of high school but why? Those girls are almost all to immature and it will do nothing for you. If I were I would just stop looking. I believe when people stop looking it just happens. Also if you were to start dating maybe you should think of dating someone outside of the school.
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Who to ask out? Well, i dont know you and i dont know who would be best to ask out. thats something you need to ask yourself. ask out a girl you talk to sometimes. ask her to just hang out. if you want advice on exactlyy who, ask a guy friend. but a girl who knows you exist is a good start.
dont start asking out a million girls. i knew someone who did this and got quite the reputation. not a good idea. try asking a girl to hang out and see a movie. iff you want, bring a couple guy friends who hav e girlfriends or something so its a group thing. if you guys hit it off, you two can hang out one on one and maybe something can happen. good luck! :)
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My dear friend,
A most common mistake is to go into a relationship for the sake of going into a relationship. Focus on yourself, don't look down on yourself for not having a girlfriend in high school, and just ask out whoever feels the most comfortable and right.
-Linda
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