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What the problem?
Me and my boyfriend, has been dating on and off for about a year. And we did'nt become a couple officially until last thursday. So that would make it a week ago. And lately everything has just started to get so wierd. Sure, we're looking for our own place, I see him alot more, and stuff like that. But he just seem so lost. I mean, he hardly kiss me anymore, and that feeling I used to get whenever I saw him is gone, and when we go to bed he just falls down and just fall asleep, no goodnight kiss, no cuddling, no nothing. He don't even sleep under the same blanket as me. Same when we wake up, he just gets up, and go to work, not even a goodbye kiss. I's like I have to ask for it, to get it. I mean, I know it could be me just being paranoid, but I don't think so. He's just not been the person I fell in love with. And I know he has much going on, with work, and he misses his one year old daughter, and stuff like that. But that should'nt change things, should it? Not long ago he was declaring his love for me, and how he never EVER wanna loose me. And I just don't know what to do. I could try talking to him, but he's not good at all at talking. So any other ideas? I could really use some help on this one. If anyone knows what this could be, and how to deal with it. Thank you very much!
XOXO, Veronica.
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Its probably becuase hes not used to the idea that you guys are officially a couple and he probably thinks its weird
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You became an offical couple last week and you are now looking for you own place?
I don't care how long you've been on and off hun, if you are only now 'on' for a week, that is wierd and bound to make things feel 'wierd'.
Get out of his bed, and off the housing market until the two of you can happily pass at least six months in the 'on' position.
If he has been inconsitant in his affections for the last year, it would be insane to believe that he was suddenly going to become constant and reliably 'in love' now that you are magically an offical couple.
So either talk to him about this, even if he sucks at it, or take a huge step back from rushing into a happy home with this guy. You have very good reasons to suspect your 'happy home' might not have a long life span.
There are hunderds of little things that this could be, but the big thing that it certain is is two people who are not ready to move in togeather.
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