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so let me do a little catch up for you guys so your not completely confused. i started dating my boyfriend in september, i love the kid to death. but he has messed up in our relationship a couple times i the begining he cheated on me with another girl i forgave him gave him another shot then in decemeber he did it again with another girl , that time i wasn't so nice about it i gave him one more shot and was a bitch for months. so ive finally been acting normal and he hasnt. he barely shows his attention to me anymore, he doesnt show that he likes me at all he does it randomly. i just found a message to some girl who he said he missed and then she said they should hang out . should i be sketched out ? cause .. i am and the girl is a complete slamm pigg idk if he is dumb enough to do anything, i told him it'd be the end for sure if he did everrr again but i dont know.. i dont know what the hell im even supposed to do in general i dont know if im supposed to be with him right now even or if im putting myself threw alot of shit. and people tell him when we fight "i dont know how you deal with that? " when he doesnt need to deal with shit, he pays for nothing, cleans up nothing, does nothing! i do everything for him and people say and he says " i dunno, me either" makes it even better. im sorry its so long someone please just give me something to help me fix things :(
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He is not ready for a serious relationship. He is probably being distant so maybe you would realize it. I am sorry if that is something you didn't want to hear but if he is fooling around like that and not doing anything for you all I see is that he is not ready at all.
Also some guys don't see doing stuff with other girls is bad (I don't know why they think that but they do) they see sex as nothing more than sex.
i am sorry but I think you need to move on to someone who is ready and will help you grow not hold you behind.
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i think that by allowing him to have all these second chances you are only going to end up hurting yourself. i dont know if you were really hurt by it when he cheated those two times but i really dont think that you should have to be dealing with this. im sure that he is a really great person and that you care deeply about him but if i were you i would try to let him go. breaking up with him is probably not what you had in mind but i think you should have a talk with him. a real honest, long talk about how you feel like he seems distant and how he feels about the idea of possibly breaking up. =/ sometimes when you really want something to work its hard to see that you are better off without it. i learned that from my last relationship.
talk to me if you need any more help. good luck
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