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unsatisfied
im unsatisfied with my life right now. i recently had a breakup with a pretty long relationship. he moved on fast. i want to move on. ive been thinking a lot and finding myself despirately wanting another relationship thats even more amazing. i keep thinking about it. i know it doesnt just come that easily. i feel like i wont be happy until i have a great relationship like my last. then again, every opportunity i have had since the breakup, i denied it. i cant fall for anyone else other than my ex. it just doesnt feel right and ive been wanting a relationship that feels perfect. i dont like my friends. i dont like where i live every guy in my school is gross/asshole. how can i be happy again? how can i distract myself from this thought? how can i find someone new if i dont like the people who i know?
ps. i dont like (<3) the people who like (<3) me
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you really sound jsut like my bestfriend kaitlyn.
anyways what i do to help get over guys is to kind of "delete them" from my life. like i erase all the pics of me and him and erase his number and i begin to forget about him and start looking into other guys, not every guy is an asshole, i know you can probably find someone sweet in your school
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To answer your questions:
1.how can i be happy again? ]
The only way to be happy again is if you let yourself be happy. stop thinking about your ex
2.how can i distract myself from this thought?
Find a guy who YOU like and if you don't find one right away that's fine trust me. Here is one thing you can do. Go to your room and get rid of everything that reminds you of him.
3.how can i find someone new if i dont like the people who i know?
You have to give everyone a chance as my mom use to tell em you can't judge a book by it's cover. What that means is even if the guy doesn't seen hot enough or nice enough or sweet enough chances are that he is just nervous because he really like you.
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Time for some ME time. I know it's hard being lonely, but you need to figure out what makes you happy WITHOUT guys. Join a club, or a church, or any kind of group that you're interested in--music, books, gardening--whatever--or better yet, volunteer to help people who need help in your community. It might seem lame at first, but when you expose yourself to people who you don't know, and really LISTEN, you can come away with some pretty amazing knowledge. Get yourself busy with other things, and the right guy will show up, eventually. But don't make your happiness about someone else...you have to find that within yourself. Corny, but true.
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