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"The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right".-Hannah Whitall Smith

The reason that I am on here to help people is this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and I feel like I give good advice. Im trying to help people from my own experience from the life I've had so far. I hope I help everyone I write to.

If for any reason anyone needs to ask a question in confidence you can email me at Xxpinkslipxx95@aol.com or at s0cialitex3lifee@aim.com and that question and my answer will never be posted anywhere. You have my word

World, im listening... and I want to help!

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I want to commit suicide. I want someone to help me do this. Please let me do it.

Okay before you make any rash decisions, you really need to think if commiting suicide is the only way out. And I can garantee you that it is not. Infact, suicide is the worst, way to solve your problems. Think of everything you would be giving up. If you need to talk to someone. Talk. Trust me, someone will listen and be able to help you.

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I might be sent to military school and I don't want to go. What should I do?

sit down and talk to your parents about because maybe they will understand ur point of view.

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What did Britney Spears mean when she said "I go through life like a karate kid."

i think that she meant that she fights her way through life and never just stands there and takes it.

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I'm a 42 y/o single man. Less then a month ago my best friend died in an accident. I have not been able to come to grips with his death. I have recently been having thoughts of ending my life. This happens whenever I am alone, especially at night. I have lost loved ones before, including my parents and brother all within a year of each other, but I never felt this type of despair, or loneliness. I am afraid I may eventually give in to my suicidal urge. Can anyone help me?

I KINDA UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH YOU SEE I RECENTLY JUST LOST MY BEST FRIEND TOO. SHE WAS IN A CAR ACCIDENT, WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR SUCH A LONG TIME. IT WAS HARD TO LET HER GO. I HAD THE SAME THOUGHTS LIKE YOU ARE HAVING DON'T WORRY YOU JUST NEED SOME MORE TIME TO GET OVER HIS PASSING. YOU HVAE TO REMEMBER NOT EVERYONE CAN GET OVER A LOSS OF A LOVE ONE AS SOON AS OTHERS VAN SOME PEOPLE NEED MORE TIME THEN OTHERS. ABOUT THE SUIDICAL URGE DON'T GIVE INTO IT. ALL YOU NEED IS TIME TO THINK THINGS OVER.

HOPE I HELPED,
Crazibrunette052693

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What does it mean if my laptop only boots every other time I turn it on?

it doesn't really mean anything my computer does the same thing. don't worry its probaly just doing a "checkup"

Hope I helped

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Are there any exercises I could do to get my thighs to look...not as fat?

sit ups, jumping jacks, running and more basically every exercise will make your thighs look not as fat.

Hope I helped!

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I'm making a minature model of someone and this will be the first time i ever used clay. I'm not a very great art person but this will probably be a huge mark for ym project in class.

Is there any tips you can give me to make this successful and hopefully not make it look terrible? It's air-dry clay from Wal mart. thanks

Make a sketch first and try to catch his/her best side start with the easy stuff like a head and work your way up. You get it dont let yourself down.

Goodluck

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how can you figure out what percentage of your body is fat?

It hard to tell but if you do research it will tell you want percentange of your body blood what percentage of your body is everything else and when your done minus that all from 100% and you will probaly get the percentage of your body fat.

Hope I helped

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Okay, so I met this guy last year and right now we're friends. But for some reason I can't stop thinking about him, and I go out of my way to pass him in the hallway at school, and I'm always checking my buddy list to see if he's on..etc.

I'm thinking I might have a crush on him or something..But the strange thing is that i can't actually picture a relationship with him. Like I wouldn't say yes if he asked me out and all I want to do is stay friends.

Can someone explain to me what's going on here? Because I'm really confused. =(

Of course its love how you can tell is because you cant resist him. Well maybe you cant icture a relationship because it would feel a little werid ebcause you don't know if he likes you.


Trust me when I say ur in love


Good luck

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ok so i am going out with this guy but hes younger than me. but he looks like hes the same age and like 3 weeks ago he kissed me. and all i wanted to do was go out with him. now that we are going out, he doesnt really treat me like a girlfriend and he won't even hug me. i mean i dont like a guy to be all over me but i would like him to show some pda. and to make it worse, my ex-boyfriend who i was friends with wont look at me because he heard i got a boyfriend so soon after we broke up. and its hurting me. and i dont know what to do. please help...

well i can't say that that same same thign happend to me but something similar did. Here is what you can do maybe your ex feels that way because it is taking him longer to get over the breakup. What you can do is justtalk to your ex because he probaly feels a little werid because he still needs some time to get over the break-up, and he sees you over it makes him feel even more werid. As for you new boyfriend he probaly feels a little insacure

hope i helped

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What nipple does the baby suck onn after it comes out for milk?
The right or left?

Honestlt it doesn't matter which one just!

Congrats with the new baby

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So I am graduating soon and im debating if i should go to community and get all my classes finished or should i go to fashion school? I want to do both and can't choose. The fashion one would be more fun probaly and more money. But, The community one would be less money, I would get those classes finished, and it wouldnt probaly be as exciting as fashion school. BTW, does anyone know good colleges to apply to in getting the degrees done for sports medicine? Thanks and Good luck to all your futures!

Ok here is what you can do make a list about why you would like to go to fashion school or ago to community school. In each list write wh and or ahy not to go to community or fashion school. Even though community will be less it is more important that you are going to have fun.

Hope you have fun at school!!!!

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does anyone own the mayline brand #915 technique table, better known as mayline 915 technique table? if so, how do you like it? at what price did you buy it for? where did you buy it? how was the assembly -- complicated / simple?

http://www.computerdesksnmore.com/Common/Product/Product.aspx?ID=4242&qid=MOD3A_i04-080218-20:18:55-15171

this is the cheapest i can find it. i want it in medium cherry

heyy i wa sjust looking around for you and the site that you gave me is the cheepest it isn't that hard to put together I helped my sister put her's together, just follow the instructions.

Hoped I helped!

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I don't know if any of you advicenators out there have seen the commercial for Diagnosis X (I think it is on discovery channel or something) but I was wondering if anybody had seen the advertisement and knows the song that is played during it...? Thanks to the maxx to whomever can help me out.

Ohhh yeah I remember that commercial the song is Wires by Athlete.

Hope I helped

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i have a problem when i sing karaoke i do so bad like im off key and stuff
but when i sing acapella or with the singer im good.
anything i can do to fix this?

When you sing karaoke wear earpplugs so you don't hear the music. It helped me. Then gradually because you will still hear the music you will be able to sing both karaoke and acapella.

Good Luck!

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my legs are really splotchy and not a very smooth skin tone, how do i fix them up?
Thanks:)

PS also my legs and face dont tan well and evenly, my face doesnt turn brownish and even, always red...any way to help with this?

Aveeno (i think that is how you spell it) cream it will work wonders. As for your face, I'm sorry I can't help you there.

Sorry,
Hope I helped!!!!!

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help! i need an idea for a manipulative project for religion studies, it has to be made by hand. please answer asap, its due this week. help please?



xoxo,
bella

I had the same problem I didn't know what to do but then it came to me a MOBILE. All you have to do is get a hanger and cut out figures RELATING to religion and on the back explain how you want to get closer to god.

Good Luck!!!

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well....i am with my bf and trust me...he can turn me on rly good. but the problem is...im a very nervous person and i rly dont know much about sexual stuff....so when he asks me to do these things....i get nervous becuz i dont knw how to do it or i do and i am nervous becuz i have never done it. i need advice on how to get over my nervouseness and just go for it...

OK first thing is your not alone I had the same problem with my bf. But how I got over my nervouseness was I took it slower. Because then a took it a day at a time and now we can't stop. trust me if you take it slow you'll get over it. Hope I helped! Also watch was he does sorta and kinda copy

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i've seen some girls at my school wear these little things that look like dresses. and they wear leggings under them, and ballet flats. and the dresses are sorta like tank tops, and they have little pockets on them, and their kinda short dresses. they look like this.....

http://img.thefind.com/images/SwA7_vP4jmkM0xgWMTAwJBYUJBal5jBklJQUWOnrl5eX6-WlZuYm5uUmFiWXFusl5-fqFxTlp5QmlxTr5-bp-_nqGpobu8Tn5ullFaQzAAA*

does anyone know where i can find some cute and nice ones for a good and cheep price. like maybe at old navy or something??

thanks to all your help!

Absoulutly in fact i got one too. You can find them at macy's jcpennies old navy like you said and much more just keep a sharp eye out for them you'll find one

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i really want to become a musician. im learning guitar as we speak, and i have some pretty good songs in mind. but when im ready, where do i go from there? how do i form a band?

any kind of advice would be nicee. :)

P.S. (i'm 15/f...so if that helps any...)

Ok here what you can do put up flyers about band interview or something to get your band started and on the flyer what kind of instuments you will like. Also after you get your band together look for a studio where you can shoow a music director what yout band can do.

Good Luck
hopfully I'll get a chance to listen to your music one day

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