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Is it love, or..?
Okay, so I met this guy last year and right now we're friends. But for some reason I can't stop thinking about him, and I go out of my way to pass him in the hallway at school, and I'm always checking my buddy list to see if he's on..etc.
I'm thinking I might have a crush on him or something..But the strange thing is that i can't actually picture a relationship with him. Like I wouldn't say yes if he asked me out and all I want to do is stay friends.
Can someone explain to me what's going on here? Because I'm really confused. =(
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Maybe you're scared of ruining yalls friend ship or maybe you just wanna know that he likes you too.
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Of course its love how you can tell is because you cant resist him. Well maybe you cant icture a relationship because it would feel a little werid ebcause you don't know if he likes you.
Trust me when I say ur in love
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You've sort of already answered this for yourself. You don't want a relationship with him, but you can't get him out of your head. I'd interpret this as nothing more than being fascinated by them. Perhaps they have an unforgettable personality quirk, or something about them is something you'd absolutely love about a guy, i.e. prefect flippy hair, intensely blue eyes, or maybe the way they walk.
How well do you know this guy? Feeling as though you have a crush on him (despite not liking him) could be a yearning for knowing more about a mysterious person you don't know much about. Get to know him better, and talk to him when he's online. Texting him is good, too, if you both have it. Even if you don't want to pursue a relationship, a good friendship is silly to pass up.
-LM
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