I am an 18 yr old girl w/ a bf who i have been dating on & off for about a year now. He asked me back out recently & i really didnt want to say yes but felt obligated to. so we're currently dating. recently, another guy has started to show interest in me. we hung out a few times recently & he actually kissed me. i feel awful because i dont think the guy knows about my bf & i know my bf doesnt know about the guy [they go to different schools] i know i need to make a choice but i dont know what to do... i have more fun with the other guy, but i know my bf is the better 'boyfriend' in the sitatuion. im so stuck!
Lovetornado answered Sunday March 2 2008, 4:54 pm: Well im younger than you so i bet it would be harder. but i have been where you are. (kinda) but what i can say is go out with the one that makes you feel good. the one that makes you happy. If the other guy makes you happy then thats the one you should go with. because you cant say he isnt the "best boyfriend" because you havent went out with him...yet. sometimes guys treat girls that are friend and Girlfriend differently. if you get what im saying. guys will treat the girlfriend differently. but with your boyfriend, dont go out with him because you feel obilgated. thats not helping anyone. not even him. but really its up to you. [ Lovetornado's advice column | Ask Lovetornado A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.