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I like a boy who doesn't know I exist basically
Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 1:03 am
so I'm sixteen and a junior. There is a guy who's a senior named "erik." I see him all the time and I think he's so cute. Basically, I see him after every class and in the student parking lot his car is always near mine. The only reason I know his name is because I work on the school yearbook and I make the index and he was in it like twelve times.I'd like to get to know him, but its hard without classes together or many mutual friends. I'd like to catch his attention, but positive attention. Could you give me any ideas? Thanks.
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he is such an asshole; but i want him so bad!
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 9:58 pm
This might be long:
14/f
So a couple of weeks ago, this guy that i know and that i used to mess around with took y virginity.
i wasnt really planning on it, but it happend.
and the time before that one that we were going to have sex, he told me that he wasnt the type of guy that sexs girls and stops talking to them.... well thats exacly what he did. we stoped talking ):
i talked to him like 2 days after we had sex, and he told me everything was str8 and that he wants to be friends and what not... and now everytime i text him or call him he doesnt answer.
i know i should just forget it and him and just leave him alone, but i cant. i find myself thinking about ...
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ignoring me(he could at least kick me or something)
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 9:23 pm
My boyfriend is on restriction for 5 weeks. Thats not that bad but he will call me on sunday and be like " I miss you I want to see you at school monday" and then he turns around and ignores me at school. Then he will be like "whats wrong" well duh im all alone you big idiot. So please what should I do?
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When being myself doesnt cut it...
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 9:20 pm
Okay. I'm sure this question is on here a million times over, and i know the main remedy is to "be yourself", but i need an answer a little bit deeper than that.
I'm not skinny. I'm not horribly fat. I am chubby, but i know i'm not ugly. (i'm not trying to be conceited at all.) my thing is, i have confidence in myself. And though i am self-conscious about my weight, i'm working on that with all i've got. Here's the problem; i'm a junior in high school, and i still don't know how to act around guys. yeah the main problem is my self-consciousness, but now that i'm past that a little, i don't know how to initiate conversation with guys i'm interested in. there are a ton of guys i'd like to get to know, but i have no id...
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Dont want it to end .
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 8:17 pm
Me and boyfriend have been dating a year now . We've had quite a few hard bumps in the past , but we managed to get through them. We've broke up two times but it was'nt even a whole day. Things just feel like they arent the same anymore , i mean i love him to death and im still happy . I just wish it could be the same as when we first started dating . We didnt argue . every little minute we got to spend together was always the best time of our lifes. We argue a lot now and to be honest i cant even point out the reason we do argue , its always something differnt. He broke up with me one time because of my jelousy and iv changed , he talks to any girl he wants and i dont really get mad and if i do i keep it to my self. Its like [ we're ] not ...
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how 2 move 2 the next level?
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 8:03 pm
i wanna take it to he next level but i dont know how.i have tickled him and he tickes me and to end this we usaully end it by just sitting there ,him holding me and me snuggling him. how could i do this?i think he wants to move to the next level ,but i think he wants me to make the next move.i am all confused.
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i love you?
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 7:50 pm
ok so i just got a boyfriend and he my first boyfrined.i was wondering how long do you wait to say "i love you"? we have gone out on 3 dates and hung out lots.
he has held me for awhile and i really do love him.how do i tell him?
15/f
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cheating..
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 7:33 pm
I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I dont know how i can find out?? He always tells me im not and that im crazy for thinking that, but i always see girls numbers in his phone he wont let me look at his phone and when he falls asleep i always catch myself looking cause i know theres gonna be something i dont want to see. i dont know what to do someone help pleaase.
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Rules of Friends/Dating
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 7:21 pm
Is there a 'rule'... like one of those things that you're not supposed to do even though it's never mentioned, against liking the same person, which another friend likes? And liking/dating a friend's ex?
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lack of "love"
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 7:18 pm
Is it normal to have never dated anyone or been with anyone at 16?
Because I feel so out of it, since I'm apparently never interested in anyone that likes me. And everyone I know has dated atleast one person :|
Thanksss~
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PlEaSe HeLp FaStttttttt!
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 7:09 pm
Hey! I really need good help this time!
Lately i've been second guessing myself and im not too sure what to do. See, the guy i've been crushing on for about a year doesn't hang out with me much anymore...and i found out that a few months ago he liked me but only told his bestfriend and no-one is sure if he still likes me or not....but sometimes i feel like he's too good for me and stuff and i dont know what to do! i really wanna know if he likes me before summer and he leaves for highschool. but i truly dont want everyone knowing and making it really obvious or anything....help! help! help!
-celllyyyy<3
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????
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 6:38 pm
ok so i am 16 and i am not a virgin but i have been talking to this kid for about 8 months now and like he tells me he likes me sometimes and then he changed his mind and said im like his sister and then now after he broke up with his last girlfriend he seems to be talking to me again, and like its not just talking talking its sexual shit and it gets kinda aggravating and to be honest the second time i had sex i didnt want to, and now that he is saying this and i asked him to stop he doesnt really listen.
but im not sure if he really likes me or not
so can someone help me here!?!
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keep relationship exciting, without sex?
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 5:30 pm
my boyfriend and i have been dating three years in june. we're perfectly happy, but sometimes things get a little boring- where we've become so comfortable together, it's like sometimes we forget the "romantic" element of our relationship. there are no more random kisses on the forehead, no cute notes left on my papers or on my away messages, etc. regardless, we're still happy and we do have cute moments, just not as many as we used to.
i just need cute things to do to spark him back up again and give him the hint that i miss these cute little things. we've fought once before that he didn't make me happy and i'm afraid to just blatantly say "i miss our spontaneous cute moments", because then he'll think he...
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i need both sides, but mostly guys
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 5:10 pm
I havent had a boyfriend in more than a year and its not like i need a boyfriend, but i want one. So i want to know what guys find attractive. All ages please, and mostly guys opinions, but girls are fine. I do not want to hear confident, because i already am, thanks
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blah
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 4:17 pm
15/f
This is going to be a very confusing story, please bare with me haha.
Ok, so last weekend i hooked up with this guy John. John and I had been sort of a thing for like a couple weeks and this was the first time we've hooked up. Things were like fine between us for a few days but then he started excessively calling me and i got really annoyed and decided it was time to move on, though he doesn't know that yet. This past saturday we were all out and john and i werent talking that much because he was in a pissy mood and i didnt want to deal with him. so i just flirted alot with my good friend james who i like now, and he likes me. later that night he called me upset and blamed it on me, and i felt really bad. i have ...
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when my boyfriend fingers me...
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 12:46 pm
When my boyfriend fingers me my legs start to shake and i start to feel like I have to pee...is this normal?
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Serious Relationships
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 12:11 am
ok well i know its possible to be in an unhealthy relationship because the couple is like obsessed with each other but i dont think my bf and i are like that. we are best friends though and extremely comfortable with each other. we have a serious relationship that is beyond what our ages are. im 14/f and my bf is almost 16/m. we are in love and im moving soon so we are trying to make the most of our time. my mentor thinks it is a bit worrying how comfortable we are and how serious our relationship is at such a young age. and also what will i do when i move? how will i live without him? i already only see him once a week! please help...i will rate :]
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cheater
Posted Monday March 17 2008, 12:04 am
my boyriend cheat on me , is it possible for a cheater (who wont admit that he did) to not do it again or do you think h will keep cheating
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driving me crazyyy.
Posted Sunday March 16 2008, 11:56 pm
16/f
okay so basically this guy is driving me CRAZY. i only see him about once a month, sometimes more because we're in this youth group thingy. but like i knew him before that through other ppl and we used to be really great friends and stuff. he goes to a dif school btw. but anyways, i saw him today. and like wenever i see him he like never says hi and hes like really outgoing and stuff. but he like wont talk to me unless me and a friend come up to him and start talking. because im like scared to go up to him alone. yeah i guess i kinda like him. and its weird because i never have a problem talking to guys before. he just like confuses the hell out of me. hes liked me twice and we hooked up and stuff. but now its just like awkward ...
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Posted Sunday March 16 2008, 10:53 pm
ok look theres this boy who i use to go out wit but broke up and he goes wit someone else.now everytime i see him he is blowing kisses at me or flirting and touching me does that mean he still likes me or is he just teasing me please let me know
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