I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I dont know how i can find out?? He always tells me im not and that im crazy for thinking that, but i always see girls numbers in his phone he wont let me look at his phone and when he falls asleep i always catch myself looking cause i know theres gonna be something i dont want to see. i dont know what to do someone help pleaase.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Brandi_S answered Tuesday March 18 2008, 12:26 pm: I heard someone say once something about suspicions destroying trust. You are allowing your suspicions to destroy your trust in him.
And you are breaking his trust by looking on his phone when he doesn't know about it. He doesn't want you looking at his phone, so you need to respect his space and privacy.
Just because there is a girl's number on his phone doesn't mean he's cheating on you. You are assuming.
I don't know how you can find out for sure, but that isn't the right way to go about it.
I'd say that until he gives you a reason other than a number on his phone, you need to trust him.
Or say goodbye if you can't.
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