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he is such an asshole; but i want him so bad!
This might be long:
14/f
So a couple of weeks ago, this guy that i know and that i used to mess around with took y virginity.
i wasnt really planning on it, but it happend.
and the time before that one that we were going to have sex, he told me that he wasnt the type of guy that sexs girls and stops talking to them.... well thats exacly what he did. we stoped talking ):
i talked to him like 2 days after we had sex, and he told me everything was str8 and that he wants to be friends and what not... and now everytime i text him or call him he doesnt answer.
i know i should just forget it and him and just leave him alone, but i cant. i find myself thinking about him ALL the time and wishing i could just see him.
advice? PLEASE!!!!
thanks!<33333
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First let me tell you I know you dont wanna think about it but you cant avoid it. Girls tend to get pretty attached to the guy that was her first (unfortunately for us). So yeah its gonna be hard to just not think about it. My best advice is to try to keep your mind busy and give him some space and time. who knows maybe hes just confused.
hope this help =D
-Luna
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Hey girl,
Look I'm going to talk to you like the lady you are, because having sex is an adult thing, and since you have experienced it I hope what I have to say will help! First let me tell you the guy you had sex with was anxious enough before you had sex with him, and now feels as if things went exactly his way!!!!! But that is where the role reversal takes place :) What you need to do is act like it never happened ok, next when you see him act like you don't even know he exists, Next step it up on you dress skills (come with a basic professional look, you do want to appear more mature, and not desperate!!!) Last but not least know one thing honey WOMEN RULE THE SEX DEPARTMENT JUST BECAUSE WE HAVE THE PACKAGE!! MEN WANT. POINT BLANK. And the next time you decide to have sex, whether or not it is with this guy or someone else....... take a minute and think about how you are in control and no one can take that from you!!!!!!!! That guy will wish he didn't act like it was an accomplishment, but an honor to have a clean woman 2 b with. Trust Me things will change once you change for you!!!!!!
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i know it will be hard, but i would just try my hardest to forget about him and wait until he tries to make contact with you. its not fair for him to take your virginity and then up and leave, especially since you are 14. don't make yourself look needy, just wait til he comes around, if he actually does. he seems like a jerk though, so don't waste anymore time chasing him unless he decides to call you.
good luck :D
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