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making out
hi am a 13 year old guy and ve like only made out wit a girl 1 befor and dont want to ambares my self if im bad or anything wit my g/f now whos had expierence. u have any tips or anything thanks
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first off dont grab her face and try not to slobber on her (its so annoying when guys do that it feels like theyre trying to swallow your face)then try not to be pushy about where you put your hands and its usually a good thing if you start off with a soft kiss and the more you do it the more you will learn about what she likes and every girl likes to do her own kinda thing so she may be different from your next girlfriend
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First off, do not be nervous when you decide to make out with your girlfriend. It will things very awkward and not enjoyable. Do not worry about what you could've done or should've done while you're making out either, another thing to make it awkward. The basic thing is to be confident, take it easy, and if you get to the point where you don't really know what to do, then follow her lead (go with the flow). Since she's had more experience, she will probably take the lead anyhow, so just go with the flow and I'm sure everything will work out just fine for you.
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honestly, making out comes with experience. Theres no way really to enhance your performance or make it worse. With each new relationship youll learn a little more and gain more experience. And just because shes more experienced than you, doesn't mean anything, your time will come, so don't rush it. If anything, lack of experience is more of a turn on then someone whos been around and around.
Good luck! Just relax youll be fine :)
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Hey, you're 13. Relax. You'll gain experience as life goes on (and boy, you have a long life ahead of you). Let your girlfriend know you're inexperienced and ask if she's willing to teach you.
For some girls, that's a turn on.
cheers,
stargirl
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She may have experience, but kissing a different person is ALWAYS going to be a whole new story. Neither of you have experience with each other, so this is new for her as well. Also, if you're dating, I'm sure she'll accept you even if you are a bad kisser (which is usually difficult to do, anyway), and I'm sure she wouldn't mind helping you practice.
Since you said you've made out with someone before, you should know the basics. Just make sure you take it slow at first, and try to follow her lead if you're not sure on what to do. Just make sure you come off as confident, that's one of the best things a guy can do! Also, make sure you're not too stiff! Move your hands around (ask her if it's okay with her if you plan on grabbing or anything..). Touch her face really gently or play with her hair, and she'll probably enjoy it a lot. (;
Good luck!
XOXO KAT.
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