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Dont want it to end .
Me and boyfriend have been dating a year now . We've had quite a few hard bumps in the past , but we managed to get through them. We've broke up two times but it was'nt even a whole day. Things just feel like they arent the same anymore , i mean i love him to death and im still happy . I just wish it could be the same as when we first started dating . We didnt argue . every little minute we got to spend together was always the best time of our lifes. We argue a lot now and to be honest i cant even point out the reason we do argue , its always something differnt. He broke up with me one time because of my jelousy and iv changed , he talks to any girl he wants and i dont really get mad and if i do i keep it to my self. Its like [ we're ] not happy anymore. I mean we love each other but its just not FUN and AMAZiNG like it use to be . Im not ready to end this relationship , sometimes it just doesnt seem like he cares too much its always me doing this and worring about that ya know . I just want ways to get it back to the old " us " , but everytime we say we will do it, never works =( . Please , he's my first love . Im going to talk to him about it because i really want to know if he wants us to be together .
Tell me what to do , please .
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First off I'm not going to tell you what to do I am going to give you advise to take action to. Things in relationships ALWAYS change you don’t get the fun filled charger every time you hang out and that’s because you are use to it. They say once you get over the butterflies of a new relationship what keeps you together is the love. If you get mad or jealous always be honest in a nice way never make it an argument. But, do not keep things bottled up because when you let it go and tell him its always you being mad. Just letting loose on him all at once isn’t fair to him. If something bothers you let him know. Calmly discus it so he doesn’t do it as much. He does care but he isn’t going to be the same as it was in the beginning. He shows it in a different way because you aren’t just starting the relationship so you don’t have to flirt like you use to. its more like he is your best friend because you have been growing together the past year. so when he shows you that he cares it is different then it was in the beginning. If he didn’t love you he wouldn’t be with you. but he will always be interested in making new friends which include girls and that’s no problem. because your not going to stop talking to guys just because you have a boyfriend. the couples that get married are the ones that don’t get jealous. because you will make friends of the opposite sex your whole life. If he makes a friend that is a girl who is to say she wont become one of your best friends. I dated a boy 2 years and we broke up because i wouldn’t stop getting upset and i never even knew why i was mad. it was always something small and its not worth it. if something is upsetting you i will give you this advise. honestly count to ten sounds stupid but when you count thing 'why am i honestly upset' and by the end you will relies it is pointless. if something is honestly coming between the both of you just talk to him about it. but never make something a fight. nothing needs to ever be a fight. we are young and having a good time.
pretty much if you are a jealous person (as i am)you will always be that way but you only are because you love him. if you didn’t love him you would get jealous. and he needs to know that. but he needs to know you wont let it effect you in your relationship. he needs to be able to make friends of any sex its just natural. once that is realized you will make it as far as you want to go.
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