i wanna take it to he next level but i dont know how.i have tickled him and he tickes me and to end this we usaully end it by just sitting there ,him holding me and me snuggling him. how could i do this?i think he wants to move to the next level ,but i think he wants me to make the next move.i am all confused.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Blueluna answered Wednesday March 19 2008, 7:15 pm: Assuming you guys have kissed umm I would say like one day while he's holding you just look at him straight in the eye. Then give him a long kiss. I would say a passionate kiss but not too passionate. Then stop and look at him again see how he reacts and if he freaks then you should Stop cause hes probably not ready for this. If this is the case then just have patience he'll know you want to move to the next level and he'll tell you when hes ready.
BUT if he doesnt freak or anything then go for it! try kissing down his neck this time, he will get the message. After that you guys do whatever you wanna do. Always considering each other's boundaries of course (you dont wanna make him do something he dont wanna or vice versa).
Hope this helps
N much luck to u
-Luna [ Blueluna's advice column | Ask Blueluna A Question ]
sassynena answered Tuesday March 18 2008, 8:03 pm: heyy :]
well, if you and him havent kissed then you should move on to that one by simply when you two are hugging or snugling together, just kiss him (:
and if you have reached that level and want to go further, just as you two kiss maybe tease him a little and put your hands in his shirt, and maybe wisper something cute in his ear letting him know you feel confortable with him and would like to go on to the next level.
DayTripper answered Tuesday March 18 2008, 6:26 pm: If you haven't kissed yet then you should make that move while you're tickling. Get close to his face while you're giggling and look at him and he may try to come in to kiss you, but if not, then he's too shy, and you should make the move. If that's too big of a jump for you, try kissing him on the tip of the nose.
If you have already been to this step and you're saying that you want to go further than kissing, all you have to do is caress him under his shirt in a side to side motion and keep getting lower. [ DayTripper's advice column | Ask DayTripper A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Tuesday March 18 2008, 2:40 pm: Maybe he thinks he wants to take it further, but maybe at the same time he isn't really ready to, so he's satisfied just goofing around then snuggling?
Have patience. That way you know you are both comfortable with going further.
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