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cheater


Question Posted Monday March 17 2008, 12:04 am

my boyriend cheat on me , is it possible for a cheater (who wont admit that he did) to not do it again or do you think h will keep cheating

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askforanswersfromAndie answered Tuesday March 18 2008, 1:22 am:
cheating is a person thing. i have simi cheated on guys before but i always told them. it could be a denial thing for him . A self impulsive sort of thing . but i have now been with a guy 1 year and almost 4 months no cheating. so people can change but denial is never a good sign.

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Jeanne answered Tuesday March 18 2008, 12:51 am:
Hmmmm... well, if he had admitted it, and apologized, and seemed genuinely sorry, that would mean that he really felt guilty about it... and his guilt might prevent him from doing it again. However, if he keeps denying it, that means that he's more worried about getting "in trouble" than he is about doing something wrong. And that probably means that he'd do it again, if he thinks he can get away with it. Sorry :(

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Mr_Skittles answered Tuesday March 18 2008, 12:34 am:
Generally if they cheat, they'll tend to do it again.

Also, if the guy isn't even able to fess up and be honest with you, then the relationship is completely unhealthy and should be ended.

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schochie16 answered Monday March 17 2008, 10:44 pm:
Anyone is capable of cheating
i think that it really depends on how good of a relationship you guys have. if its been kind of rocky then most likely it won't stop. i belive that you need to sit back and think about how he has been behaving and if you think that this is likely to happen agian if things stay the way they are. if your relationship is perfectly fine maybe you guys need to just sit down and talk alone to find out if he doesn't like something your doing etc. Therefore, i can not tell you weather or not he will do it again. but everyone is capable of it. weather or not they do it... tahts another story.


hope i helped

-E

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cloudy_conscience answered Monday March 17 2008, 10:23 pm:
I don't necessarily agree with the saying 'once a cheater always a cheater,' but if someone won't admit that they did something wrong then i'm pretty sure they are likely to do it again.

Hope I Helped.

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pouncebaby9 answered Monday March 17 2008, 10:09 pm:
i cheated on my boyfriend once, i never cheated on him again, to this day we've been together for a year & 9 months.
and since he didn't admit it idk about him
after all, guys are very good liars.

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Razhie answered Monday March 17 2008, 12:03 pm:
If he wont even admit it, it will be a cold day in hell before he stops cheating.

I've known reformed cheaters who never cheated agian, after ages of it, and I know cheaters who only seemed to be reformed, and then went right back to thier old ways.

It is really a judgement call you need to make based on your belief about this praticular guy. Seriously though, if you have truly caught him red handed and he wont admit to any wrong doing... it doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize that such a guy will not be loyal to anyone but himself.

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