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confused
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 5:52 pm
heyy. so like .. i was hanging out with my guy friend, who i guess you could say is like a wanna be player. and we were sitting in his car & he kissed me. we talked after that and he told me he wanted to hook up and i realized that i wanted to also.. so about a week later, we hung out again and we hooked up. i wasn't sure about it before but now i feel like i like him. i wouldn't want to go out with him though because hes a player/ he can be pushy. we talked the day after we hooked up & things seemed to be chill between us but its been a few days and we havent talked. i texted him and he didnt respond .. i'm just in a state of confusion and i dont think i should like him but right now, i can't really help it. what should i do ?
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she wont talk to me
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 4:02 pm
okay so im a male and im 14 and i asked this girl out and she said yes but then shes like gotten all mad and i dont know if shes mad at me she wont talk to me when i try to talk to her. so i guess its my fault. any advice on how to fix this problem.
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i want to break up but can't
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 3:57 pm
okay. i'll make this as short as i can. 16/f. i want to break up with my boyfriend of 3 months. he has no respect for me, he cheated on me and all he ever wants to do is makeout. he's also really pushy on sex. the only inhibition that is keeping me away from breaking up with him..is the fact that i'll feel really crappy after i do so. i've broken up with him before and i've taken him back. i can't take the crappy feeling of jealousy and heartache after breaking up with him..i don't think i can. what can i do? he's my agee
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Confusing mess.
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 2:21 pm
Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months, or so, and well i already asked a question before, about my feelings sometimes being "distant", and I know this sounds bad, but for almost a year, i've liked my best guy friend.. We tried dating last year but it felt weird, so we called it off, and well now we both told each other that we never really stoped liking each other. And sometimes it's hard to think of me and my current boyfriend breaking up, but then sometimes i kinda want to, and try again with my best guy friend.. I really don't know what to do, and i know i shouldn't be thinking about this, cause i honestly do really love my boyfriend, but then sometimes i think i might love my best friend.. UGH! so confusin...
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What to do??!!
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 1:30 pm
I've known this girl for almost 2 years. Last July she moved in, right after breaking up with her ex. It is my fault for starting something before she ended the last. She lived here and then went back to him. Did this for about 8 months now. Well, she has been gone for a month and a half with him. She says she knows she needs to move on. She cares for me and sees herself with me eventually. There has never been a time that we stopped calling or seeing each other. I know she cares. She even told me if we moved away it would make things easier letting go of him. Well, I have given her an ultimatum to call me Friday to discuss what we are going to do. As a girl that doesn't like being told what to do, she didn't respond. But, not ...
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how do you know about love...
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 1:02 pm
15/f
been with my boyfriend for 2 years,
he was my best friend before boyfriend.
i'm starting to argue with him alot more, but about stupid things. when we broke up once, i felt horrible and incomplete. how do you know the difference between loving a boyfriend and a boy bestfriend?
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HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 11:57 am
ok well my b.f is comin to spend the day with me at my neighborhood TODAY!!! like a ina few hours and i dont no what the hell lwe are going to do !!! PLEASE we dont live close to anything ,,,,and he doesnt have a car sooooo please like i mean litearally we have nothing near us NOTHING and my neighborhood..is a freakin circle,,,,!! HELP PLEASE IT URGENT ..im taking any advice anything
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tangled and confused
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 11:57 am
sigh, ok sorry if this is long...
alright so you know how once you get something you want, things change? let me be specific. Here is what you need to know:
I'm 17
I got out of a long relationship a year ago.
Since then, I haven't been with another guy
I was sick of being in a relationship basically.
It was great for a year but then i wanted to get out there again, on a certain level.
I just wanted to have fun, nothing serious.
Now, i had this guy friend for two years and he would always flirt with me, even when I had a boyfriend. I liked him, he was fun and cute and very chill, however i could never picture us together as more than friends, even though...
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this guys i kinda like...
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 11:05 am
Im so confused right now! So I like this guys at school but my friends make fun of him for some reason. And he doesnt like my friends. I think hes mad at me too because i say hi and he stares at me and walks away. and my mom hates him cause hes a trouble maker. He hates Iowa because he just moved here. I try to get his attention and it kinda works. What should i do so hell talk to me?
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a crush
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 10:18 am
so i started likeing my ex boyfriend agian. and i reallly want a boyfriend right now buti dont want to just settle cause there ae plenty of guys out there but my ex is kinda a freat guy.
idk what to do. go for it or keep searching?
(keep in mind im kinda young) hehe
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weird feelings
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 9:43 am
well i really like this guy (not dating him) and when i'm alone or even doing something with friends i get the feeling that he's actually with me. like he knows what im doing right now and like he sees stuff that i see and it feels like he also knows when im flirting whith other guys so i try making him 'jealous' even though he's not even there. is that normal? and what does it mean?
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boy advice...
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 3:24 am
hi! so this boy im talking to lately...
i like him a lot. i dont love him but i do like him.
and hes really great at giving compliments. and he always tells me he loves me.
but i cant say that back because i dont love him i just like him. and he knows that.
but what do i say back to compliments?
ive just been saying the same thing back just kinda different.
any advice is great.
thanks so much!
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a posem i wrote tell me if you like it please
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 1:14 am
All the pain you given me
all the love that you let go
all the tears i shed over you
i was there for you day and night
i was there to stay with you all through the night
i was there when you needed me when you hurt me
i stayed with you all along and now that you let go of me i will forget all the good times you given me the light that you brought me the darkness in me that dissapered the happiness that you brought me the sadness i never got when i was with you i will forget and move on standing alone without you here laying in bed wishing you were here
sleeping without you here to hold me tight all through the night
waking up in the day looking beside me you wernt there i almost di...
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Mixed feelings?
Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 12:03 am
Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 months now, and well things are great.. except for the fact that sometimes i feel like were "distant".. and well, he's kinda the first guy i've ever really loved, and i honestly want to spend the rest of my life with him.. But then sometimes i feel like were not ment for each other, or were slowing drifting away.. and i hate it, but i feel it. I really need some advice, and i need to know if these types of feelings are normal for long-realtionships. Thanks.
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date ideas?
Posted Saturday March 29 2008, 11:39 pm
my boyfriend and i live in a town with nothing to do. every time we hang out we just argue for 30 minutes about who has to decide what to do.. then go eat or sit at starbucks for a few hours.
what are some other ideas? especially for a town with nothing to do! and maybe even some things to do that don't cost money but are just really fun
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how to save your friendship
Posted Saturday March 29 2008, 7:39 pm
well, in a previous question i asked, i asked how i tell a friend of mine(M) that i heard something about him.
well i told him last night, and everything fell apart. he told me the truth, and the truth was what i heard. i wanted sooo badly for it to be a lie. and i just freaked. and at the same time, another guyfriend of mine (B) was getting pissed at me because i lied to him. he just happened to be next door so M and i walked over to where he was because i needed to talk to him. he totally ignored me. i chased after him and apologized countless times and he stil wouldnt listen. so i got the vibe he hated me and stopped in my tracks, turned around, and walked back to where M was. i was too upset to talk to him, so i left his...
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what is cheating?
Posted Saturday March 29 2008, 7:34 pm
just a simple question. what is cheating. cause honeslty i don't know. i mean i know sex and kissing is but..is there more to cheating than physically? cause sometimes i feel like i might be cheating on my boyfriend even though i've never done anything sexually with anyone else.
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Am i moving to fast wit him
Posted Saturday March 29 2008, 7:16 pm
ok my boyfriend lets call him nick really loves me and i really love him too. ok we told each other that we loved each other about a month or two after we started going out. we have only been goin out five months and we have already had sex it was his first time but not mines. im 14 and he is 15 i just want to know if im moving to fast because i have also put him over most of my family but i also dont have the best family either but thank you and i will appreicate any advice you have to offer.
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kissing
Posted Saturday March 29 2008, 6:40 pm
how do you know if your a good kisser?
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How do I get to know him better?
Posted Saturday March 29 2008, 3:54 pm
I like this guy. We get along pretty well, I'd say we're friends, but we've never talked in an intimate setting before. I don't even know if he likes me, really.
He does make a point to talk me fairly often though. It's always the same question "Did you do your Calculus homework?" (the class we have together) He knows I didn't do it, because I never do, but yet he always asks, lol. Sometimes he looks at me, I think, but I can't be sure.
Anyways, I'd like to get to know him a bit more, and most importantly, find out if he likes me or not. A mutual friend of ours is having a party in three weeks, and I think/hope he's going.
Idk, honestly. I'm confused. He doesn't have a screenname. We've...
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