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tangled and confused
sigh, ok sorry if this is long...
alright so you know how once you get something you want, things change? let me be specific. Here is what you need to know:
I'm 17
I got out of a long relationship a year ago.
Since then, I haven't been with another guy
I was sick of being in a relationship basically.
It was great for a year but then i wanted to get out there again, on a certain level.
I just wanted to have fun, nothing serious.
Now, i had this guy friend for two years and he would always flirt with me, even when I had a boyfriend. I liked him, he was fun and cute and very chill, however i could never picture us together as more than friends, even though i found him attractive. OK also at the time my best friend had a HUGE crush on him so...
But that was last year. Since then i broke up with my boyfriend and my best friend not only got over him but she also moved three hours away. So when i started feeling like i wanted to have fun, i thought of him as the perfect candidate. I talk to my best friend still and when i told her she told me to watch out because he might really like me and want a relationship. I just let things go their natural way and he ended up coming over my house one day to watch a movie, but we hooked up instead. The thing is before he asked i told him the truth- i dont want anythings serious. He said yeah me either so it was ok.
Now the problem:
I started feeling like maybe it wasnt the smartest thing to do. He said he was single but i didnt really make sure he was. truth is i have no idea, he flirts with a lot of girls. then i started thinking he was a player and i was OK with that because after all, i just wanted to have fun too. I dont know, like i said, things change. I started doubting myself on whether it was ok... So now finally the questions:
1. Was it ok to do what we did?
2. Is it ok to keep doing it because id be up for it still. I like him but not enough to get involved so i thought it was perfect.
3. Should I tell my best friend (we kinda promised to tell each other everything but this...I dont know)
Anyone who can help me figure this out, I appreciate it!
Thanks! =]
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well you should tell her and you should ask him to be honest and tell him how you feel cause he might have another girl you know so tell him that you don't like him to flirt with other girls and do be like serois
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Well sounds like a great deal of fun...haha well i guess it might have been ok to do what you guys did beacuse before anything you both agreed on what both of you wanted so yea it was ok...Mabby its not ok to continue doing it beacuse one of you might start to like each other alot and then not like the agreement and the fact that you both are fliritng with *other* people ...beacuse there might be fight about that later..on the other hand if your sure you wont like him and that your cool with what ever the whole filritn thing then sure continue as mcuh as you want..BUT make SURE you WONT fall for him =) and yes you should tell your best friend since you guys promissed and proomisses are promisses and plus theres a reason you call her your *best friend* so tell her ..i think she desreves to know and who knows mabby shell help you out even more...she is the one that porbably knows you pretty good =) ..so hope i helped ..=) any other questions dont hesitate to ask me
xoxo Y>B good LUck!
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