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Mixed feelings?
Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 months now, and well things are great.. except for the fact that sometimes i feel like were "distant".. and well, he's kinda the first guy i've ever really loved, and i honestly want to spend the rest of my life with him.. But then sometimes i feel like were not ment for each other, or were slowing drifting away.. and i hate it, but i feel it. I really need some advice, and i need to know if these types of feelings are normal for long-realtionships. Thanks.
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yeah, i was with a guy for almost three years, i thought we were drifting so i freaked out and broke up with him, yeah i know physco move, ha but anyway just talk to him about it because maybe he might be feeling the same way and if you want to be with him for a while you have to talk about allooot. so just say to him "sometimes i feel distant from you," and maybe you guys can fix it together.
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This is fairly common in long term relationships, it usually occurs after the "magic" of being with each other fades. Once everything is no longer new and exciting, it's easy to feel kind of distant from the other person. Try doing stuff that you both have a lot of fun with and will enjoy, and try new things together. Also, try to bring back from stuff from the beginning of the relationship. Try calling him a nickname that you haven't in awhile, or watch the first movie you saw together. Just remember that this is common, and if you really love him you can work this out.
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