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how to save your friendship
well, in a previous question i asked, i asked how i tell a friend of mine(M) that i heard something about him.
well i told him last night, and everything fell apart. he told me the truth, and the truth was what i heard. i wanted sooo badly for it to be a lie. and i just freaked. and at the same time, another guyfriend of mine (B) was getting pissed at me because i lied to him. he just happened to be next door so M and i walked over to where he was because i needed to talk to him. he totally ignored me. i chased after him and apologized countless times and he stil wouldnt listen. so i got the vibe he hated me and stopped in my tracks, turned around, and walked back to where M was. i was too upset to talk to him, so i left his house and didnt even say bye. he didnt say bye to me and didnt even wanna ride in the car that took me home.
and now M is not calling me (mostly because i told him not to. but he needs to realize that i only said that because i was about to start bawling my eyes out,...which i did when i got home last night) and i have calmed down. right now my emotions are some weird mixture of depressed, hurt, and alone. and i just need to talk to him. i just want to be near him. but he lives so far away and i still cant drive. and besides, hes gone today.
how do i let him know that i dont hate him for what he did, that it just hurt me? and how do i let him know i want him to call me?
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You need to tell him. Ok most the time when you tell a guy that you don't want them to call you most likely they won't call because they think you actually mean it. You should find some way to tell him that you don't hate him, it just hurt you. So the way you could let him know you want him to call you is just to tell him. So good luck and I hope everything works out for you!
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well you cant..just say something liek that and then exepect to anywyas call...guys take that as you actually mean that trust me i know ...you dont wait tilhe call you..beaucse the turht is he wont ...so you call himhe wont pic but leave him a vioce messege and tell him everything....you need. or have (M) tell him or something or somebody....send him messges on facebook/ myspace aim/msn messengers anything but his not going to make the move first..you need to let himknow and thats when he realizes ..tell him everything right now you told me..(and eveyrhone else...that you wanna to be near him and your not mad at what he did you were just hurt....tell him if he likes you or even care sa little hell undertand..and he wont care nad just let it go..trust me ive been thgough this kind of guy gets mad and hates you stuff lol
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