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should i do it?


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 1:19 pm

I met a guy at the beginning of the summer and we've been spending a lot of time together... almost every day. I'm a virgin but I'm ready to have sex (save the sex speeches please, im 17 and i can make my own decisions) and I really want to with him.... i like him a lot and he likes me a lot. The other night we were getting pretty close... and he said "its up to you". After hearing him say this and knowing that it could really happen made me think... and kind of nervous. He's leaving in less than a month and he goes to school thousands of miles away. There's a chance I may never see him again... and if i did it wouldn't be for, like, a year. It makes me sad to think he's leaving and we can't be anything more than we are... and I'm...

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dinner


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 9:44 am

my boyfriend and i have been together for alomost a month im going to meet his sister at sushi im nervous and i dont know what i can talk to her about help!

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Falling out of love?


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 3:44 am

What are signs that you're falling out of love with someone? And that someone's falling out of love with you?

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Based on these signs, does he like me?


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 2:47 am

Hey! There’s a little problem that I have that I probably have put off for too long. Here goes…. So there’s this guy at school who is (or at least in my opinion) a great guy. He’s cute, super smart (and I should know- he’s one of the smartest person in our AP classes), really nice and really athletic (basketball, soccer, Frisbee, you name it).Anyway, he’s really nice to everyone, so I wasn’t sure if he was just being affable or if he might actually like me. So here’s a bit of a stuff that might be influential. I was wondering if anyone could make heads or tails of it.

We had an Arthurian Tales project earlier this year in Literature and he was in my group (we had four people total). Because the other two peop...

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I know I shouldn't even bother...


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 1:58 am

I know that everyone who reads this will just say "Drop him!!" i have heard it from all my friends but i just want another opinion. Ok i have known this guy for about 3 or 4 months now, we have hung out and seen each other about once a week and we talk almost every other day. Though he is not my prince charming and i dont have the greatst connection with the kid i like him and idk y. well here is the kicker, we have sex and yet we are not like b/f and g/f i have talked to him multiple times about going out but he just says i dont want a relationship and that he just doesnt like me in that way..... idk what to do. I want to be with him but he refuses to want to be with me.... should i just drop him?

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love


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 12:42 am

im moving and im seriously in love with this guy. wat do i do?

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1 month


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 12:23 am

our anniversary is coming and i dont know what i should get him or give him i dont want it too be way to big or fancy just something to show him i love him and care for him and its only been a month a buncha ideas are great!

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music.


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 12:02 am

I am a 17/f what are some good songs for a boyfriend and girlfriend?

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advice needed!


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 12:01 am

ok so there is this guy i am totaly into im 16 by the way and hes a bit older like 2 years and he is amazing i think im in love he is so sweet and cares about me hes not sleezy or anything. the thing is i know he was into me a few weeks ago but now i heard he has a girlfriend but i dont understand he was like perfect and i cnat stop thinking about him i spent a night going out and stuff with him then we werre going to hang out and he has communicated with me since then but thats alll and now i want to see him but do not want to make the first move and seem tooo intrested if he has a girlfriend i will feel like crap what can i do???? my friends boyfriend and him are like great friends so i will prob end up seeing him sooon but it might be un...

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Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 11:59 pm

I LOVE this guy but he has a girlfriend! We went ot a party and made-out the whole time and h e said he loves me but he won't break up with his other girlfriend! I said if you love me u'll break up with her. Then we randomly started making out and I love him sooooooooooooo much. What should I do!?!?!

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online datting


Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 11:57 pm

ok so this is pretty long. so about a year ago i was really bored so i went to this site my friend had told me about and i met this guy and i didnt think anything of it at the time you know, i was just talking to him then he asked my for my aim thing and i was like ok sure what could it hurt. anyways we got to talking and one night he told me he liked me and i thought about it and i wouldve never gone out with him like i didnt even know him. anyways. he was really sweet and idk i just thought he was cute and he had like all this stuff wrong with his life and i felt bad for him. and one night he was like everyday i sit here and cry over you because i know ill never find another girl like you i really love you and i was like WHOOAA and i felt...

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I need alot of Help


Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 11:55 pm

okay. I just got back from out of town and I haven't seen my boyfriend in a while. Then when I see him he don't say nothing to me. Then the next time I see him he is not talking to me and he is talking and laughing with this girl thats trying to go out with him. Can you tell me if its a sign of cheating?


Shante'
Age:14

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stuff to do with my boyfrien


Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 11:45 pm

me and my boyfriend live in differnt states
and hes coming to visit me in a couple of weeks
and i live in illinois and im about 20 minutes from chicago.
i was wondering what are some stuff we can do so we dont get bored.
were already going to the skatepark cuase hes big on skating and he wants to hit some of them upp
also im pretty sure were going to six flags
but like what is some other stuff we can do?

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Virginty?? Help me fast


Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 11:09 pm

hey im 13/f and i have a boyfriend of 1 year. i love him so much! And we got talkin about sex, and he said that since ima virgine, he would be super carefull with me. and then i told him im scared of ending up pregnat, he said we wont have sex untill i'm ready but i really want to, we were going too hang out tonight at ten so whom ever reads this please give me some advice, cuz i need it. P.s I really wanna wiff him i just dont knoe what ta dp.
Love,
Lil Ms. Cunfuzzled

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trifling


Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 9:16 pm

trifling what does that mean when a guy says that to a girl

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boyfriends camera?


Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 9:01 pm

i have my boyfriends camera and he leaving for college in september but im sure ill have to return the camera to him in a couple days. i want to take pictures of myself for him and NOT dirty no nudity at all. but i want him to enjoy looking at them and i want him to think of me when he thinks about his camera :) any ideas. NO NO NO naked pictures.

thanks

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How long is he in jail?


Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 4:04 pm

my boyfriend was arrested for robbing over 20 cars and havin a loaded gun on him and then he ran from the cops but then was caught again. he is 17 years old.hes being charged as an adult. an officer told me that he will be held for 28 days and then it will be decided how long hes in jail for. does anyone know what the penelty for all the above is?? please help

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Porno


Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 3:21 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. He likes to watch pornos and jerk off to them every once in a while ..he says it will enhance our sex life because he can last longer in bed if he jerks off in between us having sex. I understand that, however, I am highly uncomfortable with him watching pornos. I have never liked it, and even though he does, the fact that hes cumming to another girl basically really just rubs me the wrong way. We've been arguing about it lately. Am I wrong??

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HELP! im in too deep !


Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 2:41 pm

17/f. I recently met a few guys down where I work, they dont work there they just go there a lot. Anyways I have kinda been like "talking" to all 3 of them and hanging with them and going to their houses. It's nothing serious we just chill and stuff but I am kinda just a friendly person and I thought it was all in fun but now all 3 of them constantly call and text me and talk to me as if I were their girlfriend.

I totally didnt realize what I was doing I didnt mean to lead them on but I have never done more than hugging with any of them! Now one of them is like obsessed and the other too are always asking to hang out and stuff like that.

I don't really like any of them enough to date them, and I'm i...

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I'm afraid that he'll cheat on me again


Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 2:28 pm

I'm a 15 year old female and I have a question involving a guy. I promise it's not one of those "There's this guy..." questions. About a year ago, I started going out with this guy at my school. He was really sweet and totally devoted and always there for me no matter what. Then, over the summer I went to Europe for 3 weeks on an exchange program. When I got back in Sept. we were at different schools. From a friend I found out he was cheating on me. We broke up. Half a year later we're going out again because we both still like eachother a lot. The problem is I'm in Europe again, for the whole summer this time and I'm afraid that he'll cheat on me again, even though he promised he wouldn't. I want to trust him but I'm afraid of ge...

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