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HELP! im in too deep !
17/f. I recently met a few guys down where I work, they dont work there they just go there a lot. Anyways I have kinda been like "talking" to all 3 of them and hanging with them and going to their houses. It's nothing serious we just chill and stuff but I am kinda just a friendly person and I thought it was all in fun but now all 3 of them constantly call and text me and talk to me as if I were their girlfriend.
I totally didnt realize what I was doing I didnt mean to lead them on but I have never done more than hugging with any of them! Now one of them is like obsessed and the other too are always asking to hang out and stuff like that.
I don't really like any of them enough to date them, and I'm in way to deep to just say I'm not interested. I only see them on weekends because I live about an hour away from them all (they all live close to eachother but dont really know eachother much).
I was thinking of telling all 3 of them that I met a guy closer to me at my school that I am seeing, so they will kinda back off a bit. I have tried ways of saying I just wanna be friends but it seems like its already gone to far. Should I tell them that? What should I do?! THANKS!!
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you have gone really deep!
welll that could work but if
theyy found out that you weren't
youd be in deep s***.
deeper than you are now
soo i would talk to all of them
that you dont feel comfortable with
them being like this, i mean if you tried
it before and they wont' listen or gt the hint.
well maybe they are just creepy haha.
just talk to them .
and dont be shy about it
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Really they aren't going to know that you don't want anything more unless you tell them. It's never really too late, and as long as you let them know, they should back off.
I wouldn't lie to them about another guy. They might get jealous and try to pursue you more.
Just being honest with them is really all you can do. I know you said that it's too far to be able to still do that, but like I said- it's never too late.
--Jack
(16/m)
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