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advice needed!
ok so there is this guy i am totaly into im 16 by the way and hes a bit older like 2 years and he is amazing i think im in love he is so sweet and cares about me hes not sleezy or anything. the thing is i know he was into me a few weeks ago but now i heard he has a girlfriend but i dont understand he was like perfect and i cnat stop thinking about him i spent a night going out and stuff with him then we werre going to hang out and he has communicated with me since then but thats alll and now i want to see him but do not want to make the first move and seem tooo intrested if he has a girlfriend i will feel like crap what can i do???? my friends boyfriend and him are like great friends so i will prob end up seeing him sooon but it might be uncomfertable what can i do about that too???
totaly confused!!!
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RED FLAG!
Ask him straight out if he has a girlfriend.
Because no matter what fantasy you have or how in love with him you are, if he has a girlfriend this entire time, he's never going to leave her for you.
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maybe you could mention that a big group of people are going out and you were supposed to invite people too, you saw his sn on or his myspace etc. and thought he might want to come to
[makes you seem not too intrested and more friendly]
and tell him to bring a friend[s] of his too
and if he brings the girlfriend then you know for sure and stick with your friend and try to keep a bit of distance but not ignoring him,
but if he doesn't bring the girl, and he doesn't have one then go for it!
i hope i helped and it all works out for you
good luck!
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