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Which man is right if either?


Posted Wednesday October 15 2008, 4:05 pm

I'm a 33 year old female.

I met a guy at the age of 17 dated him for 5 years and then married him. He turned out to be mentally and psychologically abusive to our kids and I. He was sometimes a little physically abusive to the kids. Before we met i had had a 3 year relationship with another guy. We'll call him Joe. I lost touch with joe for several years but we became friends again 5 years ago. since then we have talked on the internet almost every day. He has helped me through every conflict in my marriage by being encouraging all these years and only became flirtatious about a year ago. We were never intimate during that time.

My husband and i began speaking of separation several months ago when he was rough ...

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Cheap Date Ideas


Posted Wednesday October 15 2008, 2:01 pm

17/f

Me and my boyfriend are both really indecisive, and we can never think of anything to do when we hang out. Neither one of us has a job (not for lack of trying), so anything that costs more than like $5 (i.e. movies) isn't an option. We hang out at each other's houses, go for walks, and go to the park a lot, but I'd like to do something different. Any ideas? (weekends and weekday nights, if it makes a difference)

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how do i get to know someone


Posted Wednesday October 15 2008, 1:33 pm

there are some upperclassmen guys (i'm a sophmore girl) that i think are really attractive and nice and would like to get to know better, but i dont know how. they have the same free period as i do, but i cant just like randomly go up to them and say hi and sound like a freak. what should i do?

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how do I stop looking for him


Posted Wednesday October 15 2008, 1:33 pm

How do I stop looking and going to my currently exs house??cause were not together and I'm depressed so how do I stop looking for him he lives in the mext street we were 2gether for 8 months it was a serious mature relationship..I felt he was cheating on me since he started working in burger king..and everytime I go 2 his house he says some hurtful thing help 16 f houston,tx

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this guy...


Posted Wednesday October 15 2008, 11:34 am

hi im 13 years old and theres this guy i really really like, but he happens to be my X. and we broke up like a 2 weeks ago, yeah. But we r still good friends, well what do i do to get him to notice me again?

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Break up of a 14 yr old girl


Posted Wednesday October 15 2008, 10:43 am

my bf broke up with me yesterday but we got bak 2gether. but the thing is that he said he doesnt know if he loves me anymore, and i was just scared because i really love him, and i never cry when people tell me stuff like that, but with him i cried my eyes out, and he heard me and he told me not to cry, and he felt really bad but we're good now i guess but im just not sure if i want my heart broken again with him, what if the same things happen and same problems, and my best friend told me that he told her that he wanted 2 make out with her at the movies, and she said he was like: i would have ditched her for u, and i just really dont know what to do, im so confused with my brain and my heart.♥

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a player or true this time?


Posted Wednesday October 15 2008, 9:10 am

ok so im talking to this guy. he is known to be a player some what. not really a player but like he will talk to girls and jus drop em and go to the next one. i have talked to him before and he did that to me and we are now talking again. but this time it seems like he's changed. like at first he acted the same way but now he seems really genuine and wants to hang out all the time and tells me he likes me and cares about me which he has never told me before.
should i believe him or still believe hes player?
i know thats not much decription but .....

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Is he for real or just using me?


Posted Wednesday October 15 2008, 2:17 am

Let me begin by saying that i am not one that needs to be in a relationship in order to have sex. So a few weekends ago this guy and i were drunk and ended up having sex. he kept saying that it wasn't a one night stand for him, but then again he was drunk. We ended up falling asleep together and then when we both got home, he texted me and said he wasn't just talking to me for sex. ok yeah that's what they all say ha. but anyways, went over to his house a few days later and had sex with him again. i haven't seen him in about a week and a half now and he has texted me every night since then. Not about sex all the time, but just to see how my day was, just small talk. He is in trouble right now from school so i won't see him for a while. yet ...

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Not second guessing, just wondering.


Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 11:00 pm

16/m.

K to start off, my girlfriend of two weeks broke up with me about three weeks ago this friday (aka the week after homecoming..). I took it as a low blow because the monday after she broke up with me she had a new boyfriend (WTF?!) I was infuriated, and he isn't the nicest of guys (pot head). ANYWAYS, I got over it and I started to like this girl who has liked me for a while now. And I asked her out and we're currently dating. Im just wondering if it was too early for me to get back into a relationship? I mean the girl Im dating now is amazing and I wouldn't give her up for anyone, but was me rushing into another relationship a bad decision?

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what should I do? helpppp!


Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 10:03 pm

okay so this weekend was crazyyy! parties were wild and they were in cities that are half an hour and over an hour away! well I met this guy on friday at the party and we've been talking ever since then. he told me and my friend that we should go to the party Sunday and long story short he wanted us both and he wouldn't make up his mindd! so Sunday I got wasted and was all over the guy and a lot of them were all over me, prob is this guys a player apparently and he prob just wants action but he says to me that he likes me and stuff so I really dk what to do I really want to believe him but at the same time I can't bc I'm prob not the only girl he says this to. he said he wants to see me soon and that he wants to kissme and that we should do...

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dearr lordd what do i doo


Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 10:03 pm

oh myy. alright well.me and my boyfriend were togther for 13 months. him and me were like lil kids together, we did so much for each other, sometimes me a little more for him. he cheated on me once, just kissing another girl, about 10 monhts or less into the relationship. we got back together, i dont really regret it. well, anyways.. he moved to florida, i live in ny, about two months ago. we stayed together for a month, well tried to. we fought a lot, we worried a lot, he mentioned ending it. and it was just so aparent we had to be done. my whole life, i have been serously let down, and him doin this to me, cause i knew this would happen, makes me numb. i dont wanan cry, i dont ever wanna talk to him, i have feelings of hate, and its hard....

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Boyfriend Trouble


Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 8:37 pm

15/f
Okay So Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year.
He is eternally hooked on me, and i think i could stay with him for the rest of my life if i really wanted to! He is crazy about me, and has become so comfortable with me. Were both only fifteen and hes talking about our marraige life, and how many kids he wants to have. Anytime i say something along the lines of breaking up, whatever it may be he always says "Oh please dont let those words come out of your mouth ever again, i cant even think of that happening." something like that.
I am also his first girlfriend, and before he met me he was sort of considered the "Loser". Which, i really dont care about what other people call one...

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Not exactly straighttt...


Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 8:32 pm

Well I am not straight and I know it.
I love girls, they are georgeous and ahhhh
But, I have the most amazing boyfriend!
I love him, I mean I couldn't live without him...and I know its for a companion and not just a friendshipppp!
Therefore, I think I am bi...
I mean seriouslyyy, I love boys, they attract me and get me excited, welll....girls do to!:D

The question is how do I come out to my boyfriend and my familyyyy...

I have a game with my friends who are girls where we grab each others butts and boobs, trying to make each other uncomfortableeee...

And I am a little bit weary because I don't want them to think I am copping a feel. I am NOT doing thattt...hones...

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Hooking Up?


Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 8:10 pm

16/f
This kid and I have been friends for a while and recently the subject of hooking up was brought into the conversation. He really wants to hook up but I don't know about it. I kind of do too, but I'm kind of nervous.
What would you do in this situation?
Thanksss.

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boys haha


Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 7:52 pm

what do you love most about girls? :]
just wonderinqqqqqq boyss only answerr pleasee

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Blowjobs


Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 7:18 pm

i am just wondering, how do you give a good blowjob for beginners. 15/f

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my boyfriend might like my best friend


Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 6:53 pm

i just started highschool, and there is this guy who i liked. I ended up finding out that he liked me too because he told my best friend. He later on then asked me out, which i regret because everything was moving way too fast. Especially because we didn't really know each other. A week after we'd been going out, my friend started geting too involved in my boyfriend and i's relationship...example...She felt it necessary to read every note he wrote to me, and the ones i wrote him. I told her not to read everynote because honestly, she didn't need to do that.....this relationship was not built on 3 people....just two, me and him. i told her she could read the notes only if i was to say, "hey, look at this" not her always demanding t...

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I need some advice about a a boy ;]


Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 6:47 pm

okk soo theres this boy I like.....but all my friends say hes too bad for you and all this crap and he doesnt deserve you and stuff....and he likes me 2.....what should I dooo???


Help....Plz,


Kateyy

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6 years now...


Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 6:41 pm

This guy, let's call him Mike... I've really liked him since second greade, (eigth grade now) well, i really want to go out with him, but i know that he don't like me... what do i do to make him?!?

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He acts like he likes me, but I hear he likes someone else? CONFUSED. read


Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 6:10 pm

14/f (SORRY ITS LONG)

So there is this kid in my grade, Let's call him Connor. Last year we talked once or twice and that's about it. Then when this year's school year began he came up to me and we started talking like we've been friends forever, and ever since we've been completely close. He waits for me at the end of the day and we walk to our lockers together, We walk to the buses together, and hang out at Reck alot together. Throughout the time we've been hanging out I've developed a crush I guess you could say. Well not a crush, I'm positive I like him. A LOT. We call each other our "bestest friends" And he's always giving me high fives and nice smiles in the hallway. One day he came up to me at lunch and star...

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