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Boyfriend Trouble
15/f
Okay So Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year.
He is eternally hooked on me, and i think i could stay with him for the rest of my life if i really wanted to! He is crazy about me, and has become so comfortable with me. Were both only fifteen and hes talking about our marraige life, and how many kids he wants to have. Anytime i say something along the lines of breaking up, whatever it may be he always says "Oh please dont let those words come out of your mouth ever again, i cant even think of that happening." something like that.
I am also his first girlfriend, and before he met me he was sort of considered the "Loser". Which, i really dont care about what other people call one another.
I, on the other hand, have had boyfriend experience, and i know what to say and what not to say.
When i first met him, i always had a burning sensation in my stomach when i saw him and i really really liked him alot, despite what everyone said. Now, i dont know if im getting used to the feeling, or if i simply dont like him anymore. But, the burning feelin has gone away, and when i see him i dont normally get as excited as i usually did.
Im also being attracted to other guys, that never happened when i liked him, and only him. I also dont know whether thats normal, or a sign to move on.
He says things that upset me sometimes, and i also get realy bored with him sometimes too. Like, we never do anything different, and he never says anything different. When im with him, he never wants to talk, all he wants to do is hook up, and if i make it clear i dont want to, he'll keep pushing it. I dont know if hes using me becuase im the only girl thats ever liked him, or if he really likes me. I really dont know!
Any advice?
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you sound very mature for your age and im sure your going to make the right decision no matter what; your story was very interesting.your right his getting too attached and he needs to slow down. his acting like that becuase he never had a girlfriend before never been in a serious relationship in his mind he probably already thinks your his wife.maybe you should consider taking a break during that break see what else is out there and if you still think his the one after then you should keep him if not move on.i wish you the best of luck.
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Ok. Well what i would do is take a little space. I would tell him that you still like him but you need a little "break". It sounds like you guys are spending too much time with eachother and are constantly around. This could turn into a problem because you will suffocate eachother. Hope this helps!
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this can happen a lot in relationships. especially first long-term relatinoships. you might be spending TOO much time with eachother. i know i dated a guy for 2 years was in love, but felt like i always got bored when we hung out. all we did was watch movies and have sex! but when i broke up with him, i couldnt stand it! but i ended up making a lot more friends, and finally we got back together, and it really just made me realize how much i loved him. sometimes you need a break to see if its real. because i always took him for granted, but when we broke up and he actually was hanging out with other girls, i couldnt believe how sick i was thinking of losing him!
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