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Go Young Love!


Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 6:37 pm

me and my boyfriend have been going out for just about 2 years (nearly there, in 2 months) but my dad always says, "it'll never last". We are both smart students, even though we're young, and we want to go to top universities in a years time (he is 17 and I am 16 - theres a 9 month gap and we are both in the same year at school). The thing is, its been almost two years and I feel its trivial for my dad to keep on saying this and so stubbornly denying that we could ever last. I don't feel like I'll ever break up with him (now I know that is what everyone says but I really have no desire to be with other guys, or experiment, or anything) we have both a great time with eachother as friends, help eachother out all the time, have the f...

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help i like


Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 6:26 pm

this girl we dated 1 time and we were happy and now i wish to date her again but she is kinda sad that i broke up with her last time i told her never will that happin again i love her i no she loves me what should i do plz help????????????? thanks

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it seems i want him only if i cant have him


Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 6:25 pm

so this guy asked me out like 2 months ago but i kindly said no because i didnt know him.i mean it was the first time i really talked to him ya know?
then i didnt seem him till about 2 weeks ago.he was flirting with me and stuff.well then when i walked by him he was like so whats up?and then when i replied he asked if i like him and i said well i dont know you really.so then he was like what you dont know me now?and i was like i never really got to know you but he didnt seem upset about it because he still flirted.well then i saw him last night and he was with some girl i believe was his girlfriend.and it kinda made me jealous i guess.it kinda made me think what if i really missed out ya know?now i dont know what i should do.i felt l...

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confusing boyfriend.


Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 5:54 pm

me and this guy went out about 2 months ago and we broke up. well a week later we got back together and we're going out now..whenever we talk he tells me he loves me and stuff like that...but at school he doesnt talk to me alot and doesnt sit with me and my friends at lunch. ive offered to sit with him and his friends but his friends always fill up the table before i can sit down. the first time we went out he got a girlfriend the next day..which now makes me wonder if hes using me.

so i was just wondering if yall think hes using me or not and what do you think is going on because im like at a lost right now. thanks for any help.

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boyfriend of 4 months!


Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 5:20 pm

okay well my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 4 months now and its like i want to break it off but i dont want to break it off. like i love him but alot of times he is just so competitive at everything. he has to be the best at everything! this really irritates me so much! and it seems like he has to put his 2ยข into everything. and he wants to do sexual things and kiss and makeout all the time and i just want to just be with him and watch a movie or do nothing and says we do it too much. help!

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the absolute love of my life loves another.....


Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 4:41 pm

i've been in a serious relationship with this boy for a while. this boy has and always will have my whole entire heart until the day i die.
the problem is i don't think i have his..
he goes to the school that he graduated from to watch his friend tommy play basketball, but his ex girlfriend (lilly) also plays the same nights because she plays too. they were forced to break up due to her parents because of a rumor they heard. she's still in high school. they hate him so much that the threatened that if they ever spoke again they would get a restraining order on him.
well. they still talk. and i've been hearing that he's been telling people that he will never stop loving her.. and whenever i hear that my heart stops bea...

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pregnancy tests?


Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 2:20 pm

hey i jus put it under love life coz i duno what this would come under, anyways i keep having dreams about pregnancy tests, i have a pregnancy tests in my hand and i hid it and then wake up :S its happens a few times now , could this mean anything ? or is it just them dreams u get ?



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Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 12:30 pm

17/f

I always seem to like one guy and completely ignore every other guy that comes after me; I don't want to commit to anyone if I know I like someone else more. I'm single right now, tried seeing a couple of guys unofficially, but I really do just like one guy that I know I'm never going to be with. I'm not religious, I don't think it is immoral to have sex before marriage, although I do want to be in a serious relationship with the guy I lose my virginity to. Perfectly intelligent and good looking guys like me but I can't get my mind off of the guy I like.

Next year I'm moving away to university. I know there will be lots of new guys and I'll move on, but I don't want to get tied down by a serious relationsh...

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Alcohal +boys=bad mistake


Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 11:41 am

OKay so the other night me and my friend and a couple guys were hanging out. We started to drink and i only drank a little so I was a little tipsy.
When we got back to his house we were all on the couch watching wedding crashers. Some people started to hook up but i didnt really know if i wanted to cause me and this guy who wasnt there, i think we had a thing but i didnt no. I dont know if this guy likes me cuase he is a senior and none of my friends are friends with him so i have no idea if he likes me or not, So i didnt no what to do. So later that night this guy just started to hook up with me and i like couldnt stop it. but after I totally realized i made a bad mistake.


I dont know if the senior likes me b...

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bestfriends to significant others..


Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 2:50 am

I'm 17 Female, and my bestfriend in the entire world is also 17 but Male.

I've known him since kindergarten (14years) and we've been best friends the whole time, now I kinda want to be more then friends but I don't know if he'll take it seriously when I tell him.

Telling him's not the issue I can do that bit..

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JUST FRIENDS!


Posted Friday December 5 2008, 8:20 pm

okayy so i like this guy and when he found out he said im pretty, nice, funny, cute but he thinks of us more as friends ........ how do i get out of the friends zone?? and please dont say move on because i CANT!
thanks
loveboys

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Is he playing me or am I being chicken to realize he dose really like me?


Posted Friday December 5 2008, 6:58 pm

Hello im 17 and im a female. Normally im the type that can read people very well but i came across this HUG problem! see im a new girl at this school, the girls here are all sl*ts. i hate to say it, even some of the guys are like the girls. Anyways thats not the point its just whats making this even harder for me.

There's this cute guy, his name starts with a 'J' and i really like him. We've been friends for a month now; before we just talk here an there. But like now were talking everyday in school and we text when were out. Well one day when i was freezing in history he let me wear his hoodie (this was in school) when class was over i said "Well i guess you would like your hoodie back" and started to take it off. ...

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snm


Posted Friday December 5 2008, 4:43 pm

what is snm my friends talk about it but i dont know what it is

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no attraction.


Posted Friday December 5 2008, 2:55 pm

hi. im 14/f and hes 15/m. so theres this guy, lets call him....mike. so mike and me have been flirting a lot and i have like an emotional connection with mike and he likes me but im not like physically attracted to him. i love talking to him but i dont really feel attractied to him. he told me he liked me and i said i liked him too but now i kinda regret it because idk if i do....like i trust him so much and i feel like i could like him but idk i just cant think about being with him...what should i do?

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former crush back in my life...what to do???


Posted Friday December 5 2008, 12:38 pm

i recently became reacquainted with someone that i had a crush on when i was young. but basically i had a crush on her from 6th grade until i graduated high school. we were friends but not like super close. since then we have actually become somewhat better friends and all. now this crush is ancient history in a lot of ways. i mean, today she is married and has kids and it's not that i want to be with her. i really don't. but at the same time, i had realy strong feelings way back when and i never said anything. i feel like it would do me alot of good to finally say some day what i had thought and felt about her so long ago. i don't think she would be upset or anything. we get along great. but i dont know if i should jsut keep that to m...

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guy oppinion needed


Posted Thursday December 4 2008, 11:15 pm

okay so some guys have this thing where they don't really talk about their opinions on certain situations...especially when it comes to romance. so id really like a guys opinion on this because girls tend to over think things and say well maybe he thinks that or that...still i feel a guy would understand a guy better..
so there's this boy i met that has really been confusing me. Heres the thing he liked me and i liked him. we met about a month ago. we started dating. went out on two dates back to back friday and saturday. we had lots of fun and i felt we really connected. he told me this "honestly im not going out looking for anything right now, but if i do end up finding something then great!"
i was hopeful to say ...

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Dangerous Game!


Posted Thursday December 4 2008, 10:33 pm

okay so i know we've all done it at one point or another, but see i met this boy...

i really like him but hes definitely the type of guy liked by EVERYONE and he knows it, and he loves to play mind games. he doesn't seem to be looking to commit, but hes also not a player he is the sweetest when it comes to girlfriends. its getting the gf status thats hard. i know that he likes me and im sure he wants me...thats not the problem. the problem is that i dont want to just give in to him so easily because i know him, and he WILL get bored. if we kiss, go out, hook up, w/e then in a week he'll be like 'alright were friends right?' and i want more than that. so i know this is really not the way to get someone...but i want to play his...

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This Boy ..


Posted Thursday December 4 2008, 12:54 pm

I reaally like this boy. I have no idea if he likes me or not. He stares at me in assembly sometimes, and when i look at him, he looks away.


Also when he's talking to his mates. they look at me?


im so confused. Does he like me?

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i wish i could be myself around him


Posted Wednesday December 3 2008, 11:51 pm

18 female.
i have somewhat of self-confidence only because every guy i pretty much meet tells me i'm so gorgeous (sorry not to sound conceded) and sometimes i do believe i am pretty, but other days i will just hate the way i look. i'm somewhat outgoing, around people i know pretty well and i do talk around people i just meet but why is it that i feel so shy and feel like i can't be myself around the guy i like? i've known him for about 3 and a half years now, but i just always think about what i'm going to say before i say it because i don't want to say something stupid, i don't act crazy around him because i'm afraid he will think i'm annoying, or just plain weird. i am a fun girl to be around though, but around him i am a sort of d...

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boyfriends brother=mean to me


Posted Wednesday December 3 2008, 10:44 pm

Me= 17-F
Boyfriend=17-M
bf brother=17-M

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 15 months now. A year ago before his brother got his girlfriend, He complained alot saying i was stealing his brother and we only hungout once a week if that because we live 40 minutes away and talked on the internet an hour or so nightly. Since he has got his girlfriend they hangout all the time because they go to school together and she is pretty much his only friend now because he doesnt make time for his friends. He always says things to me now about how crappy me and my boyfriends relationship is just because we dont go out and do things everytime we see eachother because we'd rather stay at home and relax together. It alwa...

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