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no attraction.
hi. im 14/f and hes 15/m. so theres this guy, lets call him....mike. so mike and me have been flirting a lot and i have like an emotional connection with mike and he likes me but im not like physically attracted to him. i love talking to him but i dont really feel attractied to him. he told me he liked me and i said i liked him too but now i kinda regret it because idk if i do....like i trust him so much and i feel like i could like him but idk i just cant think about being with him...what should i do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Sometimes the best relationships are the ones where you get along with the other person and not so much based on physical attraction. Take it slow and time will tell you if he is not the one for you. But, please, don't base it on appearances or popularity.
After all, if you were to have a very handsome boyfriend it could very well be that you have nothing in common but physical attraction and the years will take that away then what would you have?
You have so much time to choose someone. Don't rush into relationships. Take it slow and easy.
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You're only a teenager, you don't have to feel rushed into a relationship if you're not ready.
Sure, you could date him and you would probably get past his looks or whatever with time, but honestly if you don't want to lie to him, I would just stay friends with him. It's probably your best bet. You have all the time in the world to date. So just enjoy being single while you still can ;]
--Jack
(17/m)
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If you really love him you will look past just the physical part of it. Try and make up for the lack of physical attraction with so much emotional and heart attachments you know? I experianced the same thing with my b/f and idk once i was ready to just take a leap of faith and say oh well that im not really that physically attracted to him i love everything else about him and that makes up for it, he turned out to be the sweetest guy ever, so just give it a chance.
I hope everything works out for you.
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