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guy oppinion needed
okay so some guys have this thing where they don't really talk about their opinions on certain situations...especially when it comes to romance. so id really like a guys opinion on this because girls tend to over think things and say well maybe he thinks that or that...still i feel a guy would understand a guy better..
so there's this boy i met that has really been confusing me. Heres the thing he liked me and i liked him. we met about a month ago. we started dating. went out on two dates back to back friday and saturday. we had lots of fun and i felt we really connected. he told me this "honestly im not going out looking for anything right now, but if i do end up finding something then great!"
i was hopeful to say the least. the next week at school he always made an effort to see me, be with me. i did too dont get me wrong. hes got lots of friends and people started talking about us... then we got close, kissed, texted a lot... we made out once. some time passed and he was still sweet he treated me like a gf... then nothing...
he still showed interest but not as much. he never asked me out...we stopped texting so often and hed only come see me sometimes, if it was in his way.then he stopped altogether. im kinda hurt but mostly i wanna know what happened. i was ready to accept that he just lost interest BUT he still shows it. he texts me sometimes asking where i am, or if were in school he seems like he doesnt wanna be around me but then i say bye and leave and hes like "where u goin?" today i said bye to him casually cuz he looked busy and hes like "hey, your so mean to me!" wtf???? i dont understand at all do any of you????
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When a guy gives you mixed signals like this, it either means he is trying to throw you off so that you don't think he likes you, or he just doesn't know himself how he feels.
But I think when he said "I'm not really looking for anything right now, but if I do find something then that's great!" that meant what he meant.
Then again, I can't read his mind based off of a short little question.
What I mean to say is that you should talk to him. Ask him what he really feels and what he wants to do. If he needs a little time, that's fine; definitely don't rush him.
--Jack
(17/m)
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guys teasing you or insulting you can be a a form of affection. it's like when little boys kick the chairs of the little girls they like. but as far as him fading away. it seems like he doesn't want to say he wants to break up with you . i know u arent official. but seems he's scared to be the bad guy or hoping less attention gives you the hint. maybe i'm wrong but i'd guess he was losing interest. i dont know if he was just hoping for easy sex or if it has more to do with personality. but with him saying "whatever happens happens, i think the guy was just looking for a roll in the hay"
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