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My Friend Said We Can't Be Friend's Anymore!!
My friend send me a text saying we can't no longer be friends. We were the best of friends, confide in one another with our problems and issues. I depended on her and she knew she could count on me. This is what apparently did it for her:
She invited me to her bff's wedding and I told her I would go. She emailed me info on the wedding but when I replied she didnt' respond. I got really sick for 3 days and didn't call her nor did she. Then came Thanksgiving and the day after she text me "you should have told me you couldn't make it to the wedding" the event was a day after Thanksgiving. I replied what are you talking about you didn't call me to confirm. She then said we could no longer be friends.........
She holds against me that she didn't make it to her bff's wedding. I mean if you invite someone to a special event isn't it that person's responsibility to follow up and plan things out? I did say I would go but got really sick and since she didn't call I didn't know what was going on..............
She also holds against me her bday. We were suppose to celebrate it at a club and when I text her (a few minutes before we left) if my friend could go she wrote "go with her & take care" I text her back "nah it's your bday" she kept saying "no go and have fun" I did go and she holds that against me.............
Now where did I go wrong?
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Okay I have a question first are you male or female?? I dont know how to look at your profile.. but if you are a male maybe she is building up feelings for you. If you are female it also sounds like something else could be bothering her. and she needs someone to talk to but is scared to or something?
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well who get's married on a friday? it's standard practice to do that on saturdays so more people can attend. i think since this was a bigger deal to her than you that it is her responsibility to inform you. but, as far as asking a 3rd from to go at the last minute to the club. that was bad etiquette. there was no way your friend could politely say no to it nor could she prepare for that. because if it was last minute, it suggests that you and the 3rd person were already ready. you're friend is being a little petty. but i think you both are somewhat to blame. i don't see why a friendship has to end. that seems drastic to me.
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You should have called her about the wedding. She should have called you about the wedding. There is know one person to blame. You BOTH could have done something. Drop the birthday thing. Who cares, is she 3?! ANyway, if you really want her as a friend, regardless of wether or not you think shes wrong apologize. For everything including the birthday party thing. JUst be like i was being a bad friend when that happend and i'm sorry admit your at fault, even if your not.
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