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former crush back in my life...what to do???
i recently became reacquainted with someone that i had a crush on when i was young. but basically i had a crush on her from 6th grade until i graduated high school. we were friends but not like super close. since then we have actually become somewhat better friends and all. now this crush is ancient history in a lot of ways. i mean, today she is married and has kids and it's not that i want to be with her. i really don't. but at the same time, i had realy strong feelings way back when and i never said anything. i feel like it would do me alot of good to finally say some day what i had thought and felt about her so long ago. i don't think she would be upset or anything. we get along great. but i dont know if i should jsut keep that to myself or actually let the cat out of the bag. in a way, i feel i deserve to get to say it plus i feel like she deserves to know she has a special place in my heart. i don't think she'd believe i'm trying to win her over or anything. so would it do any real harm to say anything? also, if i were to say something, any clue how to go about it? i'd want to keep it somewhat lighthearted.
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WOW!! Isn't it hard being around someone you care knowing that, that person is taken and attached to this particular person?? It would be hard for me to be around someone I cared for a lot. But the question isn't if I should keep in contact but letting out your true emotions for this person..........My answer is "YES"........
I think that you do deserve to let it out. I don't think it would matter her knowing since she is already with someone else and has children with him BUT you owed it to yourself to let her know. I would suggest you tell her over coffee or when you both talk. I can't really say where exactly since I don't know what kind of relationship you both have, but you need to let it out.........
Please let me know if you need more advice, I'm here to help :)
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