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the absolute love of my life loves another.....
i've been in a serious relationship with this boy for a while. this boy has and always will have my whole entire heart until the day i die.
the problem is i don't think i have his..
he goes to the school that he graduated from to watch his friend tommy play basketball, but his ex girlfriend (lilly) also plays the same nights because she plays too. they were forced to break up due to her parents because of a rumor they heard. she's still in high school. they hate him so much that the threatened that if they ever spoke again they would get a restraining order on him.
well. they still talk. and i've been hearing that he's been telling people that he will never stop loving her.. and whenever i hear that my heart stops beating and it feels like my world has stopped..i don't have a world without him in it..
please help me.. what do i do...
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Well, you can not assume things. just tell him you will always be there for him. eventually things will lighten up and he will understand that he loves you not lilly and that it was just not meant to be with lilly
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That is a problem that is hard to fix . A good way to handle this is just be there for him eventually he will stop liking her and have kind of a hard time moving on then you come in and be there for him be his friend and then gradually get closer and closer until he realizes that he actually likes you. Another way to get him away from lilly is you can talk to lilly and ask her if she actually likes him ( and if your good friends ) ask her if she can give you a chance and take a shot at him . If your really desperate take a video of him and lilly talking then anonymously send it to lillys parents but this might make him depressed o use this as a last resort. Also finally if you realize that none of these methods work go back and think about what you like about him and then find that in another guy or brainwash your self .I did this one time if you just think to your self all the time that there is nothing you like about him or somthing like that your brain will actually start to believe it . It works .If you need any more help email me at nike12373@gmail.com.
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You need to sit down and have talk with him. Tell him you heard what he has been saying and that you want to know what is going on.
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