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mr.x
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 8:15 pm
okay so i told a couple people about the guy i like and it got out and now the guy knows . I didnt really talk to him that much so i wanted to get to know him better before i told him but he found out.. so now it would be really awkward just to go up to him ... so what should i do because i really do want to get to know him but how do i go about that?
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I hate myself for liking my friend
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 5:41 pm
Okay, so I am bi and have this friend. She's beautiful, smart, and likes me for who I am. I really want to get over her because it makes my time alone with her really awkward. She doesn't know that i have a crush on her, and I'm not about to tell her. I just want these feelings to go away. Can you offer me any advice/help?
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I need advice
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 5:39 pm
Am from Ghana, am 25 years. I had some misuderstanding with my boyfriend about a call.
It all happend, one Monday night aroud 10:30pm. I had a call from a guy who is just a friend to me. When the call came I realised that I have mistakely changed the name to female. So when I recieved the call and heard it was a male voice I was shocked, and did't no what to do at that time since it was late and I did't what us to have any problem. I answered the call by saying Hellow stweatheart, since that is the way I recieve my calls from any one that call me and moreover too didn't want to him to suspect anything. After speaking to this guy, my boyfriend ask, was it a man that called me and I told him it was a girl friend of mine. Sin...
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Confused
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 5:35 pm
What it do! Ma boyfriend lives in Texas and I live in Louisiana. I'm trippin' cause he still talk about his ex-girlfriend. he not cheatin' on me though cause she live down in the n.o. too. can you cheat ova the phone?
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Yearbook
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 3:55 pm
Hey school will be over soon and I want something cute/funny/flirty to write in my crushes yearbook. He will be gone next year but back the year after, FYI. So if anyone has any ideas I would appreciate it. Nothing dirty please!
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He might have a girlfriend....
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 1:41 pm
15/f
So there's this guy that I like. Let's call him "George". George and I have known each other since 9th grade, now we're about to go to the 11th grade. George like me in the 11th grade, but he never told me, so I went out with this other guy. George and I still were friends and we talked in homeroom and stuff. This year (10th grade) me and my bf broke up. So, somehow this news spread. Now, George and I "flirt". He gave me his number, walked me to class, puts his arm around my shoulder, wraps his arms around my waist...etc.
Yesterday, I hadn't talked to George all that day. I saw him a couple of times though. And after school my ex came up to me and said, "I heard you were liking on 'George', but...
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I'm terrified of my ex
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 6:10 am
Male, 20's.
No matter how long it goes between incidents where I end up seeing her, I'm still scared of my ex girlfriend, who has this nasty habit of trying to make me out to be a psycho stalker.
I'm tired of feeling like I'm running away, but at the same time, I don't want a stupid confrontation that solves nothing.
How do I stop being afraid of her, or should I just not go to the things I like because she may be there?
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How to make peace with the past?
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 1:22 am
25/F/US
Three years ago, I met a man. Our relationship was brief but very intense... I don't entertain any delusions regarding love; I didn't know him long enough to feel such a thing. But, when I'm honest with myself, I have to admit that no man I have met since can rival him. I've never been more attracted to a person, on so many different levels, or felt myself connect with a person emotionally and mentally so quickly, so easily.
During the past few years... I've tried to move on. I've dated. I've fallen in and out love. At one point, I was even engaged to be married. I can go for months without thinking of him at all... But once he runs across my mind, he's hard to push back out again. And I can't push him...
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fighting a lot.
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 1:18 am
for about two months now my boyfriend and i have been fighting a lot. well, not really fighting, like throwing things at eachother or screaming. its more of where one of us gets annoyed with the other and we just sit there, silently being pissed. eventually one of us breaks the ice, most of the time its him. im a lot more hardheaded.
and most of the time, its me being mad at him. im a very depressed person, and he'll always ask me whats wrong or if im ok. it gets really really annoying and thats when the cold shoulder starts up. even when nothing is wrong with me, or im kinda quiet, he'll keep asking over and over and over if im ok!! and then ill start being mean and he'll get pissed, and its a really vicious cycle and im tir...
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The "EX"
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 1:04 am
Female.
So me and my boyfriend of 3 months broke up two weeks ago because he lied a lot and was just constantly drama. A couple days after that he was telling me he still loved me and wanted to get back together and he was depressed and missed me and i told him we needed to focus on moving on. So it took a couple days, but we decided we could be friends. So on the 5ht day after we broke up he told one of his friends he wanted me to die, that i was a bitch, and he hated me for ruining our relationship.
He acted like he didnt care about me in front of everybody and didn't even talk to me; which was fine because i quit texting him and talking to him also. But then he started sending me messages saything that he missed me...
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Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 12:36 am
this guy that i like asked me to tell him how would he say that a girl is attractive in spanish since im puerto rican and i can speak both languages i dont know if he was being flirty or just being nice buti like him alot BUT I have my doubts if he feels the same way hes my dentist but now he just wants to have conversations in spanish. after were done he toches my shoulder we seem to have alot of eye contact but it did really keep me thinking why did he ask me what was the proper way to say that a woman is attractive but he ask me that in spanish i was thinking maybe he was trying to tell me that im attractive but not directly and his helper was there and she asked me are you guys talking about me but she was kinda laughing and i said no b...
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i think he is flirting but im not sure
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 12:25 am
this guy that i like asked me to tell him how would he say that a girl is attractive in spanish since im puerto rican and i can speak both languages i dont know if he was being flirty or just being nice buti like him alot BUT I have my doubts if he feels the same way hes my dentist but now he just wants to have conversations in spanish. after were done he toches my shoulder we seem to have alot of eye contact but it did really keep me thinking why did he ask me what was the proper way to say that a woman is attractive but he ask me that in spanish i was thinking maybe he was trying to tell me that im attractive but not directly and his helper was there and she asked me are you guys talking about me but she was kinda laughing and i said no b...
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Does he "dig my trousers"?
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 12:18 am
Hey guys. Brace yourselves this is really long. I am 14/f, 15 in June, a freshman in high school, and SOOO confused. Well I am a nerd. I've had this MAJOR crush on a dude; lets call him HM, ever since the first day of high school, and HM's WAY higher up on the social status bar than I am. In fact, he's the most popular guy in the whole dang school. He turned seventeen on the 15th of May, and he's a junior. Anyways, he's SO hott, and funny, and muscular, and tall, nice and… Well I'm getting carried away sorry, heh. So, about two months or so ago, he came up to me one day and started "flirting" with me to see what I would do. His flirting with me is obviously a joke, so don’t worry, I don't have my hopes up on this. Well, I gave...
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confused
Posted Friday May 22 2009, 9:33 pm
this guy that i like asked me to tell him how would he say that a girl is attractive in spanish since im puerto rican and i can speak both languages i dont know if he was being flirty or just being nice buti like him alot BUT I have my doubts if he feels the same way hes my dentist but now he just wants to have conversations in spanish. after were done he toches my shoulder we seem to have alot of eye contact but it did really keep me thinking why did he ask me what was the proper way to say that a woman is attractive but he ask me that in spanish i was thinking maybe he was trying to tell me that im attractive but not directly and his helper was there and she asked me are you guys talking about me but she was kinda laughing and i said no ...
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does he still like me?
Posted Friday May 22 2009, 6:31 pm
I use to date this boy about 2 years ago and we dated for about 4 months. Then I broke up with him and he still liked me and he still liked me for 1 1/2 years after the break-up. Every now and then I would go back and have a little thing with him, but I would always end it because for some reason I just started not liking him. Then we got in a big big big fight and he never wanted to talk to me again and he started dating another girl. Then he broke up with her and started talking to me again and telling me that he wanted to be friends again. I had liked him at this point and even before he started talking to me again. And I told him that and he said that he didn't want to date anyone right now. But he never gives me any signs that he still likes me...what should I do.
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Mind games (how to)
Posted Friday May 22 2009, 5:11 pm
Okay first of all a quick bg of the story is that my friend is datin this guy that makes her feel like s**t!! she nos hes not right for her and she nos that I feel the same, but he recently told her that if he ever were to hurt her it would be through mind games and not physically!!
What I would like to know is how she could get him back via mind games as he has now made her question herself in all aspects like is she pretty enough, is he 2 good for her etc!! she is a wreck and needs to get him back at his own game!!
So any one who knows how to do mind games please help!! she needs to get back her sparkle which has been lost because of him!!
Also not 2 b cheeky but please dont write to tell me not to meddle in her lovel...
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Boyfriend's judgemental parents.
Posted Friday May 22 2009, 5:08 pm
I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, but we were friends for years before that. I've never loved a guy this much, and our relationship is pretty serious. He lives with me, but he has a room outside of his parent's house that he pays rent for (it's in like a shop thing on his parent's property). My family is fine with us living together, but his parents are huge Christians. We live with my grandparents, but sometimes we like to stay over at his place just to have a little more privacy. His mom doesn't say anything, but his dad says that no girls are allowed to say overnight with him on his property. I respect his dad's religious beliefs and go out of my way to please him. He doesn't allow women on his property to wear anythi...
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does he like me?
Posted Friday May 22 2009, 3:20 pm
mkay. well this is katas fran. but I neeeeeeed help now!
Okay. Well there is this guy I like and I have known him for about 3 years. We were okay friends a while ago, and then I started to like him. I was to embaressed to tell him though. Eventually it got around school that I liked him, but he didn't believe them because we were such good friends. So I got over him. Then I find out that he likes me, and he asked me to the dance, but I said no :/ bigg mistake!
But anywats we became really good friends. Now this year, he recently wrote in my yearbook saying that he thinks I'm cool, and that it sucked that we liked each other @ different times. And that now he wishes we could get "closer" with a ;) face...
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Advice on giving advice :(
Posted Friday May 22 2009, 2:51 pm
Ok so my friend has just been dumped by her boyfriend after 20 months of bing together (im a guy 17 shes 17) shes my best friend but i jsut dont know how to give her advice :( i really want to make her think that life goes on she will eventually get over himn even though its going to be hard as hell, i was talking to her today she was in tears of course and much like every guy with a crying girl we have no fucking clue what to do or say, i really want to help her even if its the tiniest bit but i dont know how :( how do i give her advice? what should i keep in mind? how i do stay levl headed and not make my self so awkwardly uncomfortable when girls are like this. thanks for you time and effort and interest in my question
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Boyfriend Leaving for the Navy, advice please.
Posted Friday May 22 2009, 1:33 pm
Warning! I'm an awful speller.
I took my last final as a junior in highschool yesterday. My boyfriend, of almost a year, takes his last final as a senior June 4th. In mid-august he ships out for the navy.
Being 17 year old girl, and lacking in the category of life experiences, I believe myself to be as deeply in love as I possibly can be at this stage in my life. Paul is no where close to perfect, but he's perfect for me. He pisses me off by working to much, disappoints me by missing my performances due to work etc. etc....but the fact that he can make me so intensly mad and I can still feel love for him unconditionally only shows me how much I truely do care for him. I've never even yelled at him, because the...
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