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I need advice
Am from Ghana, am 25 years. I had some misuderstanding with my boyfriend about a call.
It all happend, one Monday night aroud 10:30pm. I had a call from a guy who is just a friend to me. When the call came I realised that I have mistakely changed the name to female. So when I recieved the call and heard it was a male voice I was shocked, and did't no what to do at that time since it was late and I did't what us to have any problem. I answered the call by saying Hellow stweatheart, since that is the way I recieve my calls from any one that call me and moreover too didn't want to him to suspect anything. After speaking to this guy, my boyfriend ask, was it a man that called me and I told him it was a girl friend of mine. Since the person's name on the phone is female. So this guy called again in two minute again and my guy picked the call since the phone was with him. He gave the phone to me after realising that I have told him a lie since the voice was a male voice.
He told me he didn't want to have anything to do with me again that am cheater, lier, he is dissapointed in me and he don't want to see me again. And later concluded that he has broke up with me.
I have apologize to him in serval occasion but still insisting on the breakup. I really love him and I don't want to loss him.
please help me am lossing it.
This is my email address niceladyasiedu@yahoo.com
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its sad that this happened...i feel you must email him with the details of the truth about what happened,as you wont be able to do it face to face,he probably cant take it.try your best to save this relationship,because its worth it.since your guy is innocent and really liked you.it shows because he was really hurt.
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You have to realize that he's probably really hurt that you lied to him. You can apologize for lying & try to convince him that you weren't cheating & it was just a friend, but if he really wants to break up, there's not much you can do. Yeah, it'll be hard to get over him, but you will. Just take some time to be single & have fun & you'll move on eventually.
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